European-DJ
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Mate are you serious?
From that first pic, I'm not gay or anything, but you seem like a good looking lad. Much better than I am, in terms of genetic looks.
If you're having problems with women, it must be an inner game issue.
Looks are always a factor of course, but in the end it is ultimately decided by other factors.
Keep working on those.
From that first pic, I'm not gay or anything, but you seem like a good looking lad. Much better than I am, in terms of genetic looks.
If you're having problems with women, it must be an inner game issue.
Looks are always a factor of course, but in the end it is ultimately decided by other factors.
Keep working on those.
European-DJ
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I have an HUGE issue with my height .. i know i can do nothing about it, but it is killing me.runner83 said:
I am 5 Feet 7', and compared to other Montenegrians (The averege girl in my city is like 5 feet 8'), i am VERY short... Therein lies my problem.
And ofc. inner game is something i lack a Lot, i have been working on this for a long time - but not getting anywere ... any articles on this?
custardpie
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I'm suspicious.
You're obviously an above average looking guy and I'm sure you know this.
Why did you make this thread? To stroke your ego?
Yes mate you're very good looking, you deserve to get all the girls you want and I wish I looked like you! Feel better now?
If your issue really is with your height then wtf good is a picture of just your torso?
There is nothing you can do about your height anyway, apart from wearing boots with big soles.
I'm 5ft 7 myself and I never really view myself as short. I just see others taller than me as lanky streaks of p1ss lol
You're obviously an above average looking guy and I'm sure you know this.
Why did you make this thread? To stroke your ego?
Yes mate you're very good looking, you deserve to get all the girls you want and I wish I looked like you! Feel better now?
If your issue really is with your height then wtf good is a picture of just your torso?
There is nothing you can do about your height anyway, apart from wearing boots with big soles.
I'm 5ft 7 myself and I never really view myself as short. I just see others taller than me as lanky streaks of p1ss lol
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
European-DJ
Master Don Juan
There was a time, where i took myself As good looking, but my question was more in regards of style, clothes, haircut and stuff.custardpie said:I'm suspicious.
You're obviously an above average looking guy and I'm sure you know this.
Why did you make this thread? To stroke your ego?
Yes mate you're very good looking, you deserve to get all the girls you want and I wish I looked like you! Feel better now?
If your issue really is with your height then wtf good is a picture of just your torso?
There is nothing you can do about your height anyway, apart from wearing boots with big soles.
I'm 5ft 7 myself and I never really view myself as short. I just see others taller than me as lanky streaks of p1ss lol
- atm girls are ignoring mé and stuff, that is why i had to make a topic Luke this
I am planning to remove the pictures within some hours
!
SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
Asking for advice on a website full of men. You mad bro?
Iceberg
Master Don Juan
Style is fine. Clothes are fine. Haircut is fine.European-DJ said:There was a time, where i took myself As good looking, but my question was more in regards of style, clothes, haircut and stuff.
- atm girls are ignoring mé and stuff, that is why i had to make a topic Luke this
I am planning to remove the pictures within some hours
You're dressed a bit more metrosexual than I could dress. But it works for you. My style probably wouldn't work for you.
Are girls "ignoring" you, or are you not actively pursuing them? There's a difference between trying to talk to women and being ignored...or sitting on your butt, doing nothing, and getting mad because girls aren't approaching you. You can't expect women to do the work for you. We're the ones with testosterone, so we're the ones who have to be brave enough to pursue.
Mike32ct
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The first pic is great. Your face looks little like a younger Enrique Iglesias. At the risk of sounding homo or creepy, you're a very good looking dude. You also have great fashion/style in that pic.
The second pic is also good to show your athletic side. I like that one too.
With all due respect, I'm not thilled with the third pic.
Are those Wayfarer sunglasses in the last pic? Please put those away. While I understand the "retro" thing, they aren't working for you. They add a nerdy touch to your otherwise good looking appearance. Is that sport coat leather? If so, I would put that away too. I've yet to see anyone pull off a leather sport coat successfully. (I put mine away too.) If it's the same sport coat as picture 1 (which is great), or made of any non-leather material (wool, cotton, velvet, etc.) then it's fine.
The second pic is also good to show your athletic side. I like that one too.
With all due respect, I'm not thilled with the third pic.
Are those Wayfarer sunglasses in the last pic? Please put those away. While I understand the "retro" thing, they aren't working for you. They add a nerdy touch to your otherwise good looking appearance. Is that sport coat leather? If so, I would put that away too. I've yet to see anyone pull off a leather sport coat successfully. (I put mine away too.) If it's the same sport coat as picture 1 (which is great), or made of any non-leather material (wool, cotton, velvet, etc.) then it's fine.
Mike32ct
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Definitely keep the stubble (5 o'clock shadow / light beard), whatever you want to call it. That works for you big time. It's especially evident in picture number one. Without it, you risk looking innocent and nice guy.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
European-DJ
Master Don Juan
To all 3;
I am approaching girls, but ½ year ago, i could approach almost any girl, and get a convo going where she would show IOI's .. perhaps i am getting desperate, but now i am not capable of doing that with a HB5..
Mike32ct;
Yeah, i think that the beard is doing it too - not too much, but definatly not without it!
thanks for the response guys!
I am approaching girls, but ½ year ago, i could approach almost any girl, and get a convo going where she would show IOI's .. perhaps i am getting desperate, but now i am not capable of doing that with a HB5..
Mike32ct;
Yeah, i think that the beard is doing it too - not too much, but definatly not without it!
thanks for the response guys!