European-DJ
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Mate are you serious?
From that first pic, I'm not gay or anything, but you seem like a good looking lad. Much better than I am, in terms of genetic looks.
If you're having problems with women, it must be an inner game issue.
Looks are always a factor of course, but in the end it is ultimately decided by other factors.
Keep working on those.
From that first pic, I'm not gay or anything, but you seem like a good looking lad. Much better than I am, in terms of genetic looks.
If you're having problems with women, it must be an inner game issue.
Looks are always a factor of course, but in the end it is ultimately decided by other factors.
Keep working on those.
European-DJ
Master Don Juan
I have an HUGE issue with my height .. i know i can do nothing about it, but it is killing me.runner83 said:
I am 5 Feet 7', and compared to other Montenegrians (The averege girl in my city is like 5 feet 8'), i am VERY short... Therein lies my problem.
And ofc. inner game is something i lack a Lot, i have been working on this for a long time - but not getting anywere ... any articles on this?
custardpie
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I'm suspicious.
You're obviously an above average looking guy and I'm sure you know this.
Why did you make this thread? To stroke your ego?
Yes mate you're very good looking, you deserve to get all the girls you want and I wish I looked like you! Feel better now?
If your issue really is with your height then wtf good is a picture of just your torso?
There is nothing you can do about your height anyway, apart from wearing boots with big soles.
I'm 5ft 7 myself and I never really view myself as short. I just see others taller than me as lanky streaks of p1ss lol
You're obviously an above average looking guy and I'm sure you know this.
Why did you make this thread? To stroke your ego?
Yes mate you're very good looking, you deserve to get all the girls you want and I wish I looked like you! Feel better now?
If your issue really is with your height then wtf good is a picture of just your torso?
There is nothing you can do about your height anyway, apart from wearing boots with big soles.
I'm 5ft 7 myself and I never really view myself as short. I just see others taller than me as lanky streaks of p1ss lol
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
European-DJ
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There was a time, where i took myself As good looking, but my question was more in regards of style, clothes, haircut and stuff.custardpie said:I'm suspicious.
You're obviously an above average looking guy and I'm sure you know this.
Why did you make this thread? To stroke your ego?
Yes mate you're very good looking, you deserve to get all the girls you want and I wish I looked like you! Feel better now?
If your issue really is with your height then wtf good is a picture of just your torso?
There is nothing you can do about your height anyway, apart from wearing boots with big soles.
I'm 5ft 7 myself and I never really view myself as short. I just see others taller than me as lanky streaks of p1ss lol
- atm girls are ignoring mé and stuff, that is why i had to make a topic Luke this
I am planning to remove the pictures within some hours
!
SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
Asking for advice on a website full of men. You mad bro?
Iceberg
Master Don Juan
Style is fine. Clothes are fine. Haircut is fine.European-DJ said:There was a time, where i took myself As good looking, but my question was more in regards of style, clothes, haircut and stuff.
- atm girls are ignoring mé and stuff, that is why i had to make a topic Luke this
I am planning to remove the pictures within some hours
You're dressed a bit more metrosexual than I could dress. But it works for you. My style probably wouldn't work for you.
Are girls "ignoring" you, or are you not actively pursuing them? There's a difference between trying to talk to women and being ignored...or sitting on your butt, doing nothing, and getting mad because girls aren't approaching you. You can't expect women to do the work for you. We're the ones with testosterone, so we're the ones who have to be brave enough to pursue.
Mike32ct
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The first pic is great. Your face looks little like a younger Enrique Iglesias. At the risk of sounding homo or creepy, you're a very good looking dude. You also have great fashion/style in that pic.
The second pic is also good to show your athletic side. I like that one too.
With all due respect, I'm not thilled with the third pic.
Are those Wayfarer sunglasses in the last pic? Please put those away. While I understand the "retro" thing, they aren't working for you. They add a nerdy touch to your otherwise good looking appearance. Is that sport coat leather? If so, I would put that away too. I've yet to see anyone pull off a leather sport coat successfully. (I put mine away too.) If it's the same sport coat as picture 1 (which is great), or made of any non-leather material (wool, cotton, velvet, etc.) then it's fine.
The second pic is also good to show your athletic side. I like that one too.
With all due respect, I'm not thilled with the third pic.
Are those Wayfarer sunglasses in the last pic? Please put those away. While I understand the "retro" thing, they aren't working for you. They add a nerdy touch to your otherwise good looking appearance. Is that sport coat leather? If so, I would put that away too. I've yet to see anyone pull off a leather sport coat successfully. (I put mine away too.) If it's the same sport coat as picture 1 (which is great), or made of any non-leather material (wool, cotton, velvet, etc.) then it's fine.
Mike32ct
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Definitely keep the stubble (5 o'clock shadow / light beard), whatever you want to call it. That works for you big time. It's especially evident in picture number one. Without it, you risk looking innocent and nice guy.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
European-DJ
Master Don Juan
To all 3;
I am approaching girls, but ½ year ago, i could approach almost any girl, and get a convo going where she would show IOI's .. perhaps i am getting desperate, but now i am not capable of doing that with a HB5..
Mike32ct;
Yeah, i think that the beard is doing it too - not too much, but definatly not without it!
thanks for the response guys!
I am approaching girls, but ½ year ago, i could approach almost any girl, and get a convo going where she would show IOI's .. perhaps i am getting desperate, but now i am not capable of doing that with a HB5..
Mike32ct;
Yeah, i think that the beard is doing it too - not too much, but definatly not without it!
thanks for the response guys!