European-DJ
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Mate are you serious?
From that first pic, I'm not gay or anything, but you seem like a good looking lad. Much better than I am, in terms of genetic looks.
If you're having problems with women, it must be an inner game issue.
Looks are always a factor of course, but in the end it is ultimately decided by other factors.
Keep working on those.
From that first pic, I'm not gay or anything, but you seem like a good looking lad. Much better than I am, in terms of genetic looks.
If you're having problems with women, it must be an inner game issue.
Looks are always a factor of course, but in the end it is ultimately decided by other factors.
Keep working on those.
European-DJ
Master Don Juan
I have an HUGE issue with my height .. i know i can do nothing about it, but it is killing me.runner83 said:
I am 5 Feet 7', and compared to other Montenegrians (The averege girl in my city is like 5 feet 8'), i am VERY short... Therein lies my problem.
And ofc. inner game is something i lack a Lot, i have been working on this for a long time - but not getting anywere ... any articles on this?
custardpie
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I'm suspicious.
You're obviously an above average looking guy and I'm sure you know this.
Why did you make this thread? To stroke your ego?
Yes mate you're very good looking, you deserve to get all the girls you want and I wish I looked like you! Feel better now?
If your issue really is with your height then wtf good is a picture of just your torso?
There is nothing you can do about your height anyway, apart from wearing boots with big soles.
I'm 5ft 7 myself and I never really view myself as short. I just see others taller than me as lanky streaks of p1ss lol
You're obviously an above average looking guy and I'm sure you know this.
Why did you make this thread? To stroke your ego?
Yes mate you're very good looking, you deserve to get all the girls you want and I wish I looked like you! Feel better now?
If your issue really is with your height then wtf good is a picture of just your torso?
There is nothing you can do about your height anyway, apart from wearing boots with big soles.
I'm 5ft 7 myself and I never really view myself as short. I just see others taller than me as lanky streaks of p1ss lol
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
European-DJ
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There was a time, where i took myself As good looking, but my question was more in regards of style, clothes, haircut and stuff.custardpie said:I'm suspicious.
You're obviously an above average looking guy and I'm sure you know this.
Why did you make this thread? To stroke your ego?
Yes mate you're very good looking, you deserve to get all the girls you want and I wish I looked like you! Feel better now?
If your issue really is with your height then wtf good is a picture of just your torso?
There is nothing you can do about your height anyway, apart from wearing boots with big soles.
I'm 5ft 7 myself and I never really view myself as short. I just see others taller than me as lanky streaks of p1ss lol
- atm girls are ignoring mé and stuff, that is why i had to make a topic Luke this
I am planning to remove the pictures within some hours
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SamTheHobit
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Asking for advice on a website full of men. You mad bro?
Iceberg
Master Don Juan
Style is fine. Clothes are fine. Haircut is fine.European-DJ said:There was a time, where i took myself As good looking, but my question was more in regards of style, clothes, haircut and stuff.
- atm girls are ignoring mé and stuff, that is why i had to make a topic Luke this
I am planning to remove the pictures within some hours
You're dressed a bit more metrosexual than I could dress. But it works for you. My style probably wouldn't work for you.
Are girls "ignoring" you, or are you not actively pursuing them? There's a difference between trying to talk to women and being ignored...or sitting on your butt, doing nothing, and getting mad because girls aren't approaching you. You can't expect women to do the work for you. We're the ones with testosterone, so we're the ones who have to be brave enough to pursue.
Mike32ct
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The first pic is great. Your face looks little like a younger Enrique Iglesias. At the risk of sounding homo or creepy, you're a very good looking dude. You also have great fashion/style in that pic.
The second pic is also good to show your athletic side. I like that one too.
With all due respect, I'm not thilled with the third pic.
Are those Wayfarer sunglasses in the last pic? Please put those away. While I understand the "retro" thing, they aren't working for you. They add a nerdy touch to your otherwise good looking appearance. Is that sport coat leather? If so, I would put that away too. I've yet to see anyone pull off a leather sport coat successfully. (I put mine away too.) If it's the same sport coat as picture 1 (which is great), or made of any non-leather material (wool, cotton, velvet, etc.) then it's fine.
The second pic is also good to show your athletic side. I like that one too.
With all due respect, I'm not thilled with the third pic.
Are those Wayfarer sunglasses in the last pic? Please put those away. While I understand the "retro" thing, they aren't working for you. They add a nerdy touch to your otherwise good looking appearance. Is that sport coat leather? If so, I would put that away too. I've yet to see anyone pull off a leather sport coat successfully. (I put mine away too.) If it's the same sport coat as picture 1 (which is great), or made of any non-leather material (wool, cotton, velvet, etc.) then it's fine.
Mike32ct
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Definitely keep the stubble (5 o'clock shadow / light beard), whatever you want to call it. That works for you big time. It's especially evident in picture number one. Without it, you risk looking innocent and nice guy.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
European-DJ
Master Don Juan
To all 3;
I am approaching girls, but ½ year ago, i could approach almost any girl, and get a convo going where she would show IOI's .. perhaps i am getting desperate, but now i am not capable of doing that with a HB5..
Mike32ct;
Yeah, i think that the beard is doing it too - not too much, but definatly not without it!
thanks for the response guys!
I am approaching girls, but ½ year ago, i could approach almost any girl, and get a convo going where she would show IOI's .. perhaps i am getting desperate, but now i am not capable of doing that with a HB5..
Mike32ct;
Yeah, i think that the beard is doing it too - not too much, but definatly not without it!
thanks for the response guys!