"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Help me guys

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Hey DJs! I'm talking to a girl by sms (oh how I hate virtual talk) 2 weeks ago, so I *asked her to a walk. She said "another time, maybe, because I don't know you that well for us to date". What is this? Is she timid? I think she is, because she's a 7 and never had a guy.

And you my friends, what do you think of this?

(sorry for any bad english) :rockon:


EDIT: *I didn't ask her, I told her.
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sorry, I wrote ask i the 1st post but in fact I told her in a statement, not question.
As smsing, I -HATE- talking by sms as I said, but she is rare to find, so the cellphone is the only thing I can use.

Timid girls are such a challenge -.-
 

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And I don't wanna be with my cellphone all the time just to sms her...
I'll give her two more weeks, if she keeps with those timid thoughts I'll stop trying her. After all, there are plenty more on the sea :rock:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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