"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Hey DJs! I'm talking to a girl by sms (oh how I hate virtual talk) 2 weeks ago, so I *asked her to a walk. She said "another time, maybe, because I don't know you that well for us to date". What is this? Is she timid? I think she is, because she's a 7 and never had a guy.

And you my friends, what do you think of this?

(sorry for any bad english) :rockon:


EDIT: *I didn't ask her, I told her.
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Sorry, I wrote ask i the 1st post but in fact I told her in a statement, not question.
As smsing, I -HATE- talking by sms as I said, but she is rare to find, so the cellphone is the only thing I can use.

Timid girls are such a challenge -.-
 

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And I don't wanna be with my cellphone all the time just to sms her...
I'll give her two more weeks, if she keeps with those timid thoughts I'll stop trying her. After all, there are plenty more on the sea :rock:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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