"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Help me guys

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Hey DJs! I'm talking to a girl by sms (oh how I hate virtual talk) 2 weeks ago, so I *asked her to a walk. She said "another time, maybe, because I don't know you that well for us to date". What is this? Is she timid? I think she is, because she's a 7 and never had a guy.

And you my friends, what do you think of this?

(sorry for any bad english) :rockon:


EDIT: *I didn't ask her, I told her.
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Sorry, I wrote ask i the 1st post but in fact I told her in a statement, not question.
As smsing, I -HATE- talking by sms as I said, but she is rare to find, so the cellphone is the only thing I can use.

Timid girls are such a challenge -.-
 

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And I don't wanna be with my cellphone all the time just to sms her...
I'll give her two more weeks, if she keeps with those timid thoughts I'll stop trying her. After all, there are plenty more on the sea :rock:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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