"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hey DJs! I'm talking to a girl by sms (oh how I hate virtual talk) 2 weeks ago, so I *asked her to a walk. She said "another time, maybe, because I don't know you that well for us to date". What is this? Is she timid? I think she is, because she's a 7 and never had a guy.

And you my friends, what do you think of this?

(sorry for any bad english) :rockon:


EDIT: *I didn't ask her, I told her.
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Sorry, I wrote ask i the 1st post but in fact I told her in a statement, not question.
As smsing, I -HATE- talking by sms as I said, but she is rare to find, so the cellphone is the only thing I can use.

Timid girls are such a challenge -.-
 

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And I don't wanna be with my cellphone all the time just to sms her...
I'll give her two more weeks, if she keeps with those timid thoughts I'll stop trying her. After all, there are plenty more on the sea :rock:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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