"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
HELP me get the courage...
- Thread starter napoleon
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Also a question: Is it acceptable to walk straight to a girl with only a hello and ask her number? (We talked before about 5 times,and know each other .I'd do it not to chicken out,the girl is glad to talk to me, I've seen her from the reflection of the window when I was leaning she was looking at me,maybe checking me out,1 y younger than me,and this all takes place in a gym...)
squirrels
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I hate this as a motivational tool. Reason being that it instills a sense of desperation in you.Originally posted by tibbetts
My cousin was like the same way and guess what? He died in a car crash by a drunk driver. Realize that you could die tomorrow, grab your balls, and ask the girl out!
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
DeathDealer
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I laughed.Originally posted by Don_Marko
go to www.thehun.com and jerk off... this site is not for you
Now to napoleon:
Grow a ****ing sack, fill it with balls, and ask her the hell out. She is just a damn girl, stop being a pvssy and ACT.
stevey_2000
Senior Don Juan
just ask her out, you'll be even more gutted if you don't ask her out so you have got nothing to lose, you get more respect asking a girl out yourself
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Spike_the_Dragon
Senior Don Juan
Don't think, feel. Thought is an obstruction and a limitation. Thinking is a process of methodical routines that leads to hesitation and isolation. Remember, you will miss approximately 100% of the shots that you don't take.
Go with your gut and just ****ing do it... you'll feel like a champion when you do whether you fail or succeed, trust me.
There is no such thing as "next time" You could be killed in the next few minutes while walking across the street. Remember, tomorrow might be too late!