“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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HELP me get the courage...

napoleon

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...to ask this girl out. I always chicken out and tell myself next time,and don't do it next time. Give me some tips or links and don't gimme the use the search .
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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napoleon

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This is good but I wan't more http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?threadid=16835&highlight=courage*
Also a question: Is it acceptable to walk straight to a girl with only a hello and ask her number? (We talked before about 5 times,and know each other .I'd do it not to chicken out,the girl is glad to talk to me, I've seen her from the reflection of the window when I was leaning she was looking at me,maybe checking me out,1 y younger than me,and this all takes place in a gym...)
 

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My cousin was like the same way and guess what? He died in a car crash by a drunk driver. Realize that you could die tomorrow, grab your balls, and ask the girl out!
 

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Originally posted by tibbetts
My cousin was like the same way and guess what? He died in a car crash by a drunk driver. Realize that you could die tomorrow, grab your balls, and ask the girl out!
I hate this as a motivational tool. Reason being that it instills a sense of desperation in you.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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i understand you fear getting hurt, the thing is you'll never find out if you never ask her out. it's usually better getting rejected and knowing the girl doesn't want you rather than "assuming" she might or might not like you.
 

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Originally posted by Don_Marko
go to www.thehun.com and jerk off... this site is not for you
I laughed.


Now to napoleon:

Grow a ****ing sack, fill it with balls, and ask her the hell out. She is just a damn girl, stop being a pvssy and ACT.
 

napoleon

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AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAARRRRGGGGGHHH!!!
I'll kill that chicken in me, die bitcch,DIEEEEEEE!!!!!!!!!!! Keep 'em coming(replyes)
 

Kidd

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Wow, get the hell outta here and ask her out already.
 

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we can only tell you to go grow some balls and ask her out because that's the only way your going to have some chance, unless i come over to where you live, take you over to her over and ask her out for you (kidding!!!!)

just ask her out, you'll be even more gutted if you don't ask her out so you have got nothing to lose, you get more respect asking a girl out yourself
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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See last quote in sig.
 

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Your problem is that you are thinking. Stop thinking about what will go right or what could go wrong and just let yourself go with the flow of the situation.

Don't think, feel. Thought is an obstruction and a limitation. Thinking is a process of methodical routines that leads to hesitation and isolation. Remember, you will miss approximately 100% of the shots that you don't take.

Go with your gut and just ****ing do it... you'll feel like a champion when you do whether you fail or succeed, trust me.

There is no such thing as "next time" You could be killed in the next few minutes while walking across the street. Remember, tomorrow might be too late!
 
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