Listen bro, I'm not the weak one. I don't let people get inside of my head. I don't let people really get to know ME. I don't share my personal stuff with anyone, and I don't tell my business to people. I come off as a sort of "mysterious" type guy, but I don't try to be that way, it's just the way I AM. People try to get to know me, and it's hard for me to let them because I've set up a wall in my mind.
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You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Help me get out of this situation! I ****ed up bad!
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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
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Haha, yeah. This is what I've been working on myself among other things. Problem is, talking about yourself and letting people know who you are is not a weak thing to do. If you can open up to someone, they open up to you. Obviously you use discretion.Jokerlsk said:Listen bro, I'm not the weak one. I don't let people get inside of my head. I don't let people really get to know ME. I don't share my personal stuff with anyone, and I don't tell my business to people. I come off as a sort of "mysterious" type guy, but I don't try to be that way, it's just the way I AM. People try to get to know me, and it's hard for me to let them because I've set up a wall in my mind.
As long as you don't tell them your secrets, you're pretty well secured in case things go sour.
You seem pretty focused with not being seen as having a weakness. I wonder why.
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Just be a friend, the more she tells you the less she has left to tell you she'll run out of stuff to say and things will normalize unless you want to screw her then go for it lol
I don't care myself. People can get in there as much as they like because I know I'll be alright and no one can control me anyways. You might want to work on that instead of getting all self-righteous here.Jokerlsk said:Because we all have weaknesses, and we are only as strong as our weakest point, so I don't like people getting inside my head
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LMFAO!Alle_Gory said:I have been around BPDs before so I understand they're not regular people. What is it you believe I am immoral about?
If you really want to get this girl to leave you alone, be nice to her. All the time. She can't stand it at all. Notice how you insulted her she clings to you and begins telling you all this crap? Exactly. Do the opposite and she will run.
You can say something like:
I really like you. You're such a nice girl. You're funny and friendly and I really want to be friends. I can't believe you cut yourself because you're really special and... yadda yadda.
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