"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Help me get out of this situation! I ****ed up bad!

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Listen bro, I'm not the weak one. I don't let people get inside of my head. I don't let people really get to know ME. I don't share my personal stuff with anyone, and I don't tell my business to people. I come off as a sort of "mysterious" type guy, but I don't try to be that way, it's just the way I AM. People try to get to know me, and it's hard for me to let them because I've set up a wall in my mind.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Jokerlsk said:
Listen bro, I'm not the weak one. I don't let people get inside of my head. I don't let people really get to know ME. I don't share my personal stuff with anyone, and I don't tell my business to people. I come off as a sort of "mysterious" type guy, but I don't try to be that way, it's just the way I AM. People try to get to know me, and it's hard for me to let them because I've set up a wall in my mind.
Haha, yeah. This is what I've been working on myself among other things. Problem is, talking about yourself and letting people know who you are is not a weak thing to do. If you can open up to someone, they open up to you. Obviously you use discretion.

As long as you don't tell them your secrets, you're pretty well secured in case things go sour.

You seem pretty focused with not being seen as having a weakness. I wonder why.
 

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Because we all have weaknesses, and we are only as strong as our weakest point, so I don't like people getting inside my head
 

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Just be a friend, the more she tells you the less she has left to tell you she'll run out of stuff to say and things will normalize unless you want to screw her then go for it lol
 

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Jokerlsk said:
Because we all have weaknesses, and we are only as strong as our weakest point, so I don't like people getting inside my head
I don't care myself. People can get in there as much as they like because I know I'll be alright and no one can control me anyways. You might want to work on that instead of getting all self-righteous here.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Alle_Gory said:
I have been around BPDs before so I understand they're not regular people. What is it you believe I am immoral about?

If you really want to get this girl to leave you alone, be nice to her. All the time. She can't stand it at all. Notice how you insulted her she clings to you and begins telling you all this crap? Exactly. Do the opposite and she will run.

You can say something like:
I really like you. You're such a nice girl. You're funny and friendly and I really want to be friends. I can't believe you cut yourself because you're really special and... yadda yadda.

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LMFAO!
 
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