Listen bro, I'm not the weak one. I don't let people get inside of my head. I don't let people really get to know ME. I don't share my personal stuff with anyone, and I don't tell my business to people. I come off as a sort of "mysterious" type guy, but I don't try to be that way, it's just the way I AM. People try to get to know me, and it's hard for me to let them because I've set up a wall in my mind.
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She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
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Help me get out of this situation! I ****ed up bad!
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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
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Haha, yeah. This is what I've been working on myself among other things. Problem is, talking about yourself and letting people know who you are is not a weak thing to do. If you can open up to someone, they open up to you. Obviously you use discretion.Jokerlsk said:Listen bro, I'm not the weak one. I don't let people get inside of my head. I don't let people really get to know ME. I don't share my personal stuff with anyone, and I don't tell my business to people. I come off as a sort of "mysterious" type guy, but I don't try to be that way, it's just the way I AM. People try to get to know me, and it's hard for me to let them because I've set up a wall in my mind.
As long as you don't tell them your secrets, you're pretty well secured in case things go sour.
You seem pretty focused with not being seen as having a weakness. I wonder why.
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Just be a friend, the more she tells you the less she has left to tell you she'll run out of stuff to say and things will normalize unless you want to screw her then go for it lol
I don't care myself. People can get in there as much as they like because I know I'll be alright and no one can control me anyways. You might want to work on that instead of getting all self-righteous here.Jokerlsk said:Because we all have weaknesses, and we are only as strong as our weakest point, so I don't like people getting inside my head
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I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
LMFAO!Alle_Gory said:I have been around BPDs before so I understand they're not regular people. What is it you believe I am immoral about?
If you really want to get this girl to leave you alone, be nice to her. All the time. She can't stand it at all. Notice how you insulted her she clings to you and begins telling you all this crap? Exactly. Do the opposite and she will run.
You can say something like:
I really like you. You're such a nice girl. You're funny and friendly and I really want to be friends. I can't believe you cut yourself because you're really special and... yadda yadda.
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