"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Sorry gang. I didn't mean to start a war here.

Just to update you, I went out with my buddies this weekend, and had them very envious of me, as a lot of good-looking women were coming up to me, chatting, hugging, asking me to dance, etc. I didn't ask for any numbers as none were interesting enough to make my grade, but had fun all the same.

Last night, I called the woman I'm dating and asked her to the comedy club for Friday to which she said she'd clear her schedule and arrange for her ex to pick up her kids from school on Friday. Looks like I'm playing things about as well as it can be done.

I appreciate all the help, but let's all get along and remember this board is for helping each other, not ripping on people who bring a viewpoint different from our own. Thanks!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Wyldfire said "The rest of your post is full of assumptions as well. You can think what you like...makes no difference to me. I am confident that there are plenty of men here who are finding my input helpful and insightful."
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Me: Although I don't always see eye to eye with Ms Wyldfire, I do respect her and her opinions. She's intelligent, well informed, witty, charming, sophisticated, pretty, not too old (
), writes very well and funny at times. I would miss her mucho if she were to leave this discussion forum.
 
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Originally posted by bclarke675:
Sorry gang. I didn't mean to start a war here.

I appreciate all the help, but let's all get along and remember this board is for helping each other, not ripping on people who bring a viewpoint different from our own. Thanks!
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Well said!

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Originally posted by Take No Dirt:
Wyldfire said "The rest of your post is full of assumptions as well. You can think what you like...makes no difference to me. I am confident that there are plenty of men here who are finding my input helpful and insightful."
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Me: Although I don't always see eye to eye with Ms Wyldfire, I do respect her and her opinions. She's intelligent, well informed, witty, charming, sophisticated, pretty, not too old (
), writes very well and funny at times. I would miss her mucho if she were to leave this discussion forum.
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Right back at ya, Dirty one!
 
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Ms Wyldfire said "Right back at ya, Dirty one!"
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Wowie!! Hahaha!! You turned me on!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by Take No Dirt:
Ms Wyldfire said "Right back at ya, Dirty one!"
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Wowie!! Hahaha!! You turned me on!
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I think a warm breeze would turn you on...

hee hee
 
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Originally posted by Don_Juanabe:
Where is this pic of WF I hear/read of?

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There's a link on my profile...horrible pictures. I took them myself and a photographer I'm NOT...lol
 
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