"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Help me get my head on straight!

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Sorry gang. I didn't mean to start a war here.

Just to update you, I went out with my buddies this weekend, and had them very envious of me, as a lot of good-looking women were coming up to me, chatting, hugging, asking me to dance, etc. I didn't ask for any numbers as none were interesting enough to make my grade, but had fun all the same.

Last night, I called the woman I'm dating and asked her to the comedy club for Friday to which she said she'd clear her schedule and arrange for her ex to pick up her kids from school on Friday. Looks like I'm playing things about as well as it can be done.

I appreciate all the help, but let's all get along and remember this board is for helping each other, not ripping on people who bring a viewpoint different from our own. Thanks!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Wyldfire said "The rest of your post is full of assumptions as well. You can think what you like...makes no difference to me. I am confident that there are plenty of men here who are finding my input helpful and insightful."
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Me: Although I don't always see eye to eye with Ms Wyldfire, I do respect her and her opinions. She's intelligent, well informed, witty, charming, sophisticated, pretty, not too old (
), writes very well and funny at times. I would miss her mucho if she were to leave this discussion forum.
 

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Originally posted by bclarke675:
Sorry gang. I didn't mean to start a war here.

I appreciate all the help, but let's all get along and remember this board is for helping each other, not ripping on people who bring a viewpoint different from our own. Thanks!
Well said!

Gipper
 

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Originally posted by Take No Dirt:
Wyldfire said "The rest of your post is full of assumptions as well. You can think what you like...makes no difference to me. I am confident that there are plenty of men here who are finding my input helpful and insightful."
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Me: Although I don't always see eye to eye with Ms Wyldfire, I do respect her and her opinions. She's intelligent, well informed, witty, charming, sophisticated, pretty, not too old (
), writes very well and funny at times. I would miss her mucho if she were to leave this discussion forum.

Right back at ya, Dirty one!
 

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Ms Wyldfire said "Right back at ya, Dirty one!"
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Wowie!! Hahaha!! You turned me on!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by Take No Dirt:
Ms Wyldfire said "Right back at ya, Dirty one!"
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Wowie!! Hahaha!! You turned me on!

I think a warm breeze would turn you on...

hee hee
 

Wyldfire

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Originally posted by Don_Juanabe:
Where is this pic of WF I hear/read of?

:)
DJBe

There's a link on my profile...horrible pictures. I took them myself and a photographer I'm NOT...lol
 
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