“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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andy87

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Evening folks been tinkering with internet dating for a bit now and I'm not getting much success, tinder for example get loads of matches but struggling to get any response when I message any suggestions?
 

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Evening folks been tinkering with internet dating for a bit now and I'm not getting much success, tinder for example get loads of matches but struggling to get any response when I message any suggestions?
Stop using Tinder and use POF and OKC. OLD is based on pictures, so make sure they help you instead of hurt you.
 

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IMO, developing a seperate set of skills for online dating is a waste of your time. Approach it the same way you would in person, start a fun flirty conversation preferably related to something in her profile.

Don't pay much attention to women with empty profiles and focus on ones with profiles you like. Sure, you'll get fewer numbers, but the numbers you do get will be women you'll have a high probability of having fun with.

Don't try and force conversation by asking a bunch of questions, it will flow naturally when she has interest. If you get a lame response don't reply. Maybe test her interest again after a week or two, but if nothing then cross her off the list. Less is more in online dating, the more time you spend the more you're just scraping the bottom of the barrel for women with low interest or who you aren't that attracted to.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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-Keep text convos short and try to setup a date quickly
-pictures are everything!
-comedy and sarcasm is very tricky

I have actually had the most success with coffee meets bagel, I think largely due to the small amount of matches they get per day. I have had 5 different women literally just give me their number saying "I don't check this app often, text me". Also, you can't send messages till your matched like tinder.

POF and OKC women can browse matches for hours and get flooded with messages. I hit those every couple days, but I really need better pics...
 
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