“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Help me devise a good Myspace opener

Leporello

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As mentioned in a previous thread I'm going to Budapest soon; I need a good introduction to send to girls on Myspace (or Facebook or whatever) to get them interested.

I figured I might as well start out with the truth, telling them that I'm new in town and would like to meet a local for advice, what places are cool to go, etc. etc. But I know the wording is key and since my previous attempts at Myspace game have flat out sucked I'm not sure how to phrase them.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Ice882

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Dude, don't pick up women on the internet. The success rate is so low. Maximize your chances and go for it in person.
 

Ice882

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Dude, don't pick up women on the internet. The success rate is so low. Maximize your chances and go for it in person.
 

Leporello

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Ice882 said:
Dude, don't pick up women on the internet. The success rate is so low. Maximize your chances and go for it in person.
Well that's the idea...line up some coffee dates or whatever quickly and then get going.
 

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The only thing you'll pick up on myspace are prostitutes and low-life trash. With that in mind, a good opening line would be
"My name is Shaggy Joe. How much for an hour?" :flowers:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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MySpace openers? You're kidding right?
 

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Sorry for the people bad talking you with no real sound advice.

One thing I've learned from opening on myspace is it's best not to just send a message right away with hi, I'm blah blah etc. The best thing that has worked for me is actually replying to their bulletins. Sometimes it will take a couple days to get the perfect one to reply to (especially if they aren't on often) but it makes negging them so much easier. It doesn't seemed canned or out of place. You also have a lot more material to work with, and it's also something she's FEELING at that moment. Not something you just read off her page and every other dude is using for his openers as well. It makes you seem a little more fresh and unique. I've spent a lot of time perfecting my myspace game, and I've actually gotten laid quite a few times thanks to it, so don't let these blokes put you down. Just bewarey of "the angles".
 

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I'm thinking of starting to add random chicks on myspace. Or start a facebook and try it there. Better yet maybe both. like 5 to 10 girls at a time and use it as another tool in the arsenal. Has anyone had any luck with this. Seems like a numbers game, much like with personal encounters.
 
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