"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Help me devise a good Myspace opener

Leporello

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As mentioned in a previous thread I'm going to Budapest soon; I need a good introduction to send to girls on Myspace (or Facebook or whatever) to get them interested.

I figured I might as well start out with the truth, telling them that I'm new in town and would like to meet a local for advice, what places are cool to go, etc. etc. But I know the wording is key and since my previous attempts at Myspace game have flat out sucked I'm not sure how to phrase them.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Ice882

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Dude, don't pick up women on the internet. The success rate is so low. Maximize your chances and go for it in person.
 

Ice882

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Dude, don't pick up women on the internet. The success rate is so low. Maximize your chances and go for it in person.
 

Leporello

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Ice882 said:
Dude, don't pick up women on the internet. The success rate is so low. Maximize your chances and go for it in person.
Well that's the idea...line up some coffee dates or whatever quickly and then get going.
 

mikeyb

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The only thing you'll pick up on myspace are prostitutes and low-life trash. With that in mind, a good opening line would be
"My name is Shaggy Joe. How much for an hour?" :flowers:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Jon55

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MySpace openers? You're kidding right?
 

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Sorry for the people bad talking you with no real sound advice.

One thing I've learned from opening on myspace is it's best not to just send a message right away with hi, I'm blah blah etc. The best thing that has worked for me is actually replying to their bulletins. Sometimes it will take a couple days to get the perfect one to reply to (especially if they aren't on often) but it makes negging them so much easier. It doesn't seemed canned or out of place. You also have a lot more material to work with, and it's also something she's FEELING at that moment. Not something you just read off her page and every other dude is using for his openers as well. It makes you seem a little more fresh and unique. I've spent a lot of time perfecting my myspace game, and I've actually gotten laid quite a few times thanks to it, so don't let these blokes put you down. Just bewarey of "the angles".
 

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I'm thinking of starting to add random chicks on myspace. Or start a facebook and try it there. Better yet maybe both. like 5 to 10 girls at a time and use it as another tool in the arsenal. Has anyone had any luck with this. Seems like a numbers game, much like with personal encounters.
 
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