"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Help me devise a good Myspace opener

Leporello

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As mentioned in a previous thread I'm going to Budapest soon; I need a good introduction to send to girls on Myspace (or Facebook or whatever) to get them interested.

I figured I might as well start out with the truth, telling them that I'm new in town and would like to meet a local for advice, what places are cool to go, etc. etc. But I know the wording is key and since my previous attempts at Myspace game have flat out sucked I'm not sure how to phrase them.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Ice882

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Dude, don't pick up women on the internet. The success rate is so low. Maximize your chances and go for it in person.
 

Ice882

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Dude, don't pick up women on the internet. The success rate is so low. Maximize your chances and go for it in person.
 

Leporello

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Ice882 said:
Dude, don't pick up women on the internet. The success rate is so low. Maximize your chances and go for it in person.
Well that's the idea...line up some coffee dates or whatever quickly and then get going.
 

mikeyb

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The only thing you'll pick up on myspace are prostitutes and low-life trash. With that in mind, a good opening line would be
"My name is Shaggy Joe. How much for an hour?" :flowers:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Jon55

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MySpace openers? You're kidding right?
 

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Sorry for the people bad talking you with no real sound advice.

One thing I've learned from opening on myspace is it's best not to just send a message right away with hi, I'm blah blah etc. The best thing that has worked for me is actually replying to their bulletins. Sometimes it will take a couple days to get the perfect one to reply to (especially if they aren't on often) but it makes negging them so much easier. It doesn't seemed canned or out of place. You also have a lot more material to work with, and it's also something she's FEELING at that moment. Not something you just read off her page and every other dude is using for his openers as well. It makes you seem a little more fresh and unique. I've spent a lot of time perfecting my myspace game, and I've actually gotten laid quite a few times thanks to it, so don't let these blokes put you down. Just bewarey of "the angles".
 

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I'm thinking of starting to add random chicks on myspace. Or start a facebook and try it there. Better yet maybe both. like 5 to 10 girls at a time and use it as another tool in the arsenal. Has anyone had any luck with this. Seems like a numbers game, much like with personal encounters.
 
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