"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Help me devise a good Myspace opener

Leporello

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As mentioned in a previous thread I'm going to Budapest soon; I need a good introduction to send to girls on Myspace (or Facebook or whatever) to get them interested.

I figured I might as well start out with the truth, telling them that I'm new in town and would like to meet a local for advice, what places are cool to go, etc. etc. But I know the wording is key and since my previous attempts at Myspace game have flat out sucked I'm not sure how to phrase them.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Ice882

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Dude, don't pick up women on the internet. The success rate is so low. Maximize your chances and go for it in person.
 

Ice882

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Dude, don't pick up women on the internet. The success rate is so low. Maximize your chances and go for it in person.
 

Leporello

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Ice882 said:
Dude, don't pick up women on the internet. The success rate is so low. Maximize your chances and go for it in person.
Well that's the idea...line up some coffee dates or whatever quickly and then get going.
 

mikeyb

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The only thing you'll pick up on myspace are prostitutes and low-life trash. With that in mind, a good opening line would be
"My name is Shaggy Joe. How much for an hour?" :flowers:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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MySpace openers? You're kidding right?
 

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Sorry for the people bad talking you with no real sound advice.

One thing I've learned from opening on myspace is it's best not to just send a message right away with hi, I'm blah blah etc. The best thing that has worked for me is actually replying to their bulletins. Sometimes it will take a couple days to get the perfect one to reply to (especially if they aren't on often) but it makes negging them so much easier. It doesn't seemed canned or out of place. You also have a lot more material to work with, and it's also something she's FEELING at that moment. Not something you just read off her page and every other dude is using for his openers as well. It makes you seem a little more fresh and unique. I've spent a lot of time perfecting my myspace game, and I've actually gotten laid quite a few times thanks to it, so don't let these blokes put you down. Just bewarey of "the angles".
 

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I'm thinking of starting to add random chicks on myspace. Or start a facebook and try it there. Better yet maybe both. like 5 to 10 girls at a time and use it as another tool in the arsenal. Has anyone had any luck with this. Seems like a numbers game, much like with personal encounters.
 
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