ediceneet12
Don Juan
aye Need some help what should i reply with?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
help me? bad at this texting ****
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
NorwegianDJ
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#1 Dont point out things. She knew that she didnt make it easy for you, dont point it out, youre lucky shes into you. Rather have a statement or such.
#2 No.
Basically, you're being afraid of any form of rejection here. You are not leading. Youre asking her to lead and that just doesnt work. She's into you so you should just meet up with her and seal the deal.
#2 No.
Basically, you're being afraid of any form of rejection here. You are not leading. Youre asking her to lead and that just doesnt work. She's into you so you should just meet up with her and seal the deal.
ediceneet12
Don Juan
Ok i'm thinking of saying "Let's meet up and you can tell me about these activities in person"
NorwegianDJ
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Youre still not leading. Just suggest you meet up at time&place for whatever. No need to put pressure on her like that.
ediceneet12
Don Juan
ok i'm a ****ing chump how would you word it?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
NorwegianDJ
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It's your girl bro. This isnt a game.
BPH
Master Don Juan
Asking what to say won't help you. If your actions are not congruent with your words, you don't come off as genuine or sincere.
Say what you want to say, learn from your mistakes and successes, and repeat until something clicks.
Becoming successful with women is about trial and error, destroying fear of rejection. At my school I have a lot of friends that respect me because I can go up to groups of random hot girls that I've never met, have a short and sweet conversation, and leave with a number.
Trial and error.
Say what you want to say, learn from your mistakes and successes, and repeat until something clicks.
Becoming successful with women is about trial and error, destroying fear of rejection. At my school I have a lot of friends that respect me because I can go up to groups of random hot girls that I've never met, have a short and sweet conversation, and leave with a number.
Trial and error.
ediceneet12
Don Juan
well she responded with "no I don't know you that well enough too tell you!"
NorwegianDJ
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Just get to know her bro
Skyline
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If you're not good at texting, then don't do it. Only use it to schedule dates and whatnot. If you want to learn to get better at it, just go on Chat Roulette, Omegle, or some other activity that requires you to talk to other people through chat.
But yeah, leave the small talk for in person. Phones in general that aren't used for making plans will kill relationships or any potential of one. :trouble:
But in the event If I encountered this situation, my exchange would of been a bit different.
Me: Driving a little fast in the parking lot huh?
Her: What can I say... I like to live dangerously
Me: There's a difference between living dangerously and being clumsy... Wear better shoes so your foot doesnt slip next time ahah
Becoming/acting indifferent/playful in this situation is your best bet. Right now, she's having her little fun with the "power" she temporarily has over you.
Keep it playful until the conversation changes into your favor.
My reply:
Me: x place at x time be there
Setup up something is the point in my reply.
Doesn't matter what she says, just stop texting at this point and go to bed or something. If she agree's then be there if not then find someone who will.
But yeah, leave the small talk for in person. Phones in general that aren't used for making plans will kill relationships or any potential of one. :trouble:
But in the event If I encountered this situation, my exchange would of been a bit different.
Me: Driving a little fast in the parking lot huh?
Her: What can I say... I like to live dangerously
Me: There's a difference between living dangerously and being clumsy... Wear better shoes so your foot doesnt slip next time ahah
Becoming/acting indifferent/playful in this situation is your best bet. Right now, she's having her little fun with the "power" she temporarily has over you.
That was a nice way to flip the tables.ediceneet12 said:
Keep it playful until the conversation changes into your favor.She didn't reject your "offer." :rock:ediceneet12 said:
My reply:
Me: x place at x time be there
Setup up something is the point in my reply.
Doesn't matter what she says, just stop texting at this point and go to bed or something. If she agree's then be there if not then find someone who will.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
ediceneet12
Don Juan
Alright thanks I saw her today and she wasn't as flirty as she was yesterday she was in kind of a bad mood and we were busy working on school work. I need to get this chick out w/ me 1 on 1.
Stort_Brød
Senior Don Juan
as said previously
and as far as her being in a bad mood the other day, what's done is done and if you are lucky enough to meet up with her again 1on1 all i have is one word for you and that is KINO it is your best friend and a close ally on the battlefields of puzzy slaying.
put on your man pants and tell her. she is just a lil girl that is looking towards you to direct her. you wouldn't believe the success that will follow if you start to tell them instead of asking them.Frayzer said:
and as far as her being in a bad mood the other day, what's done is done and if you are lucky enough to meet up with her again 1on1 all i have is one word for you and that is KINO it is your best friend and a close ally on the battlefields of puzzy slaying.
Stort_Brød
Senior Don Juan
oh and also +10pts for being an imgurian HAHA
ediceneet12
Don Juan
oh thanks Stort lol I just found the first image sharing site that came up lol. and yeah you think it's possible she was just leading me on? she flirts with guys hard alot. I've seen her do it on multiple occasions.
Stort_Brød
Senior Don Juan
flirts with guys a lot? ... you mean being a female right? it is their nature to do so, they are social beings.
if she is still talking to you then go for one last meet up or date or whatever the hell you want to call it. buuuuuuuut ALPHA the hell up bro. if you bring yourself as a man instead of a boy and she doesn't respond well next her into oblivion and move on to the abundance of puzzy just waiting for you to come get it.
if she is still talking to you then go for one last meet up or date or whatever the hell you want to call it. buuuuuuuut ALPHA the hell up bro. if you bring yourself as a man instead of a boy and she doesn't respond well next her into oblivion and move on to the abundance of puzzy just waiting for you to come get it.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.