ediceneet12
Don Juan
aye Need some help what should i reply with?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
help me? bad at this texting ****
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
NorwegianDJ
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#1 Dont point out things. She knew that she didnt make it easy for you, dont point it out, youre lucky shes into you. Rather have a statement or such.
#2 No.
Basically, you're being afraid of any form of rejection here. You are not leading. Youre asking her to lead and that just doesnt work. She's into you so you should just meet up with her and seal the deal.
#2 No.
Basically, you're being afraid of any form of rejection here. You are not leading. Youre asking her to lead and that just doesnt work. She's into you so you should just meet up with her and seal the deal.
ediceneet12
Don Juan
Ok i'm thinking of saying "Let's meet up and you can tell me about these activities in person"
NorwegianDJ
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Youre still not leading. Just suggest you meet up at time&place for whatever. No need to put pressure on her like that.
ediceneet12
Don Juan
ok i'm a ****ing chump how would you word it?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
NorwegianDJ
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It's your girl bro. This isnt a game.
BPH
Master Don Juan
Asking what to say won't help you. If your actions are not congruent with your words, you don't come off as genuine or sincere.
Say what you want to say, learn from your mistakes and successes, and repeat until something clicks.
Becoming successful with women is about trial and error, destroying fear of rejection. At my school I have a lot of friends that respect me because I can go up to groups of random hot girls that I've never met, have a short and sweet conversation, and leave with a number.
Trial and error.
Say what you want to say, learn from your mistakes and successes, and repeat until something clicks.
Becoming successful with women is about trial and error, destroying fear of rejection. At my school I have a lot of friends that respect me because I can go up to groups of random hot girls that I've never met, have a short and sweet conversation, and leave with a number.
Trial and error.
ediceneet12
Don Juan
well she responded with "no I don't know you that well enough too tell you!"
NorwegianDJ
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Just get to know her bro
Skyline
Master Don Juan
If you're not good at texting, then don't do it. Only use it to schedule dates and whatnot. If you want to learn to get better at it, just go on Chat Roulette, Omegle, or some other activity that requires you to talk to other people through chat.
But yeah, leave the small talk for in person. Phones in general that aren't used for making plans will kill relationships or any potential of one. :trouble:
But in the event If I encountered this situation, my exchange would of been a bit different.
Me: Driving a little fast in the parking lot huh?
Her: What can I say... I like to live dangerously
Me: There's a difference between living dangerously and being clumsy... Wear better shoes so your foot doesnt slip next time ahah
Becoming/acting indifferent/playful in this situation is your best bet. Right now, she's having her little fun with the "power" she temporarily has over you.
Keep it playful until the conversation changes into your favor.
My reply:
Me: x place at x time be there
Setup up something is the point in my reply.
Doesn't matter what she says, just stop texting at this point and go to bed or something. If she agree's then be there if not then find someone who will.
But yeah, leave the small talk for in person. Phones in general that aren't used for making plans will kill relationships or any potential of one. :trouble:
But in the event If I encountered this situation, my exchange would of been a bit different.
Me: Driving a little fast in the parking lot huh?
Her: What can I say... I like to live dangerously
Me: There's a difference between living dangerously and being clumsy... Wear better shoes so your foot doesnt slip next time ahah
Becoming/acting indifferent/playful in this situation is your best bet. Right now, she's having her little fun with the "power" she temporarily has over you.
That was a nice way to flip the tables.ediceneet12 said:
Keep it playful until the conversation changes into your favor.She didn't reject your "offer." :rock:ediceneet12 said:
My reply:
Me: x place at x time be there
Setup up something is the point in my reply.
Doesn't matter what she says, just stop texting at this point and go to bed or something. If she agree's then be there if not then find someone who will.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
ediceneet12
Don Juan
Alright thanks I saw her today and she wasn't as flirty as she was yesterday she was in kind of a bad mood and we were busy working on school work. I need to get this chick out w/ me 1 on 1.
Stort_Brød
Senior Don Juan
as said previously
and as far as her being in a bad mood the other day, what's done is done and if you are lucky enough to meet up with her again 1on1 all i have is one word for you and that is KINO it is your best friend and a close ally on the battlefields of puzzy slaying.
put on your man pants and tell her. she is just a lil girl that is looking towards you to direct her. you wouldn't believe the success that will follow if you start to tell them instead of asking them.Frayzer said:
and as far as her being in a bad mood the other day, what's done is done and if you are lucky enough to meet up with her again 1on1 all i have is one word for you and that is KINO it is your best friend and a close ally on the battlefields of puzzy slaying.
Stort_Brød
Senior Don Juan
oh and also +10pts for being an imgurian HAHA
ediceneet12
Don Juan
oh thanks Stort lol I just found the first image sharing site that came up lol. and yeah you think it's possible she was just leading me on? she flirts with guys hard alot. I've seen her do it on multiple occasions.
Stort_Brød
Senior Don Juan
flirts with guys a lot? ... you mean being a female right? it is their nature to do so, they are social beings.
if she is still talking to you then go for one last meet up or date or whatever the hell you want to call it. buuuuuuuut ALPHA the hell up bro. if you bring yourself as a man instead of a boy and she doesn't respond well next her into oblivion and move on to the abundance of puzzy just waiting for you to come get it.
if she is still talking to you then go for one last meet up or date or whatever the hell you want to call it. buuuuuuuut ALPHA the hell up bro. if you bring yourself as a man instead of a boy and she doesn't respond well next her into oblivion and move on to the abundance of puzzy just waiting for you to come get it.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.