hey there. Here's my problem, to girls I can talk very easily now(thanks to sites like these), but with guys I have problems being "myself". I think this is hindering my progress in making male friends. Has anyone been through this? how did you overcome it? Advice and tips are welcome.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Vibe
Don Juan
You've become so used to having "tactics" to fall back on that when you speak to guys, you don't know "how" to act. Just act like yourself. No worries. Some guys won't get you and some guys will. It's not like you wanna hang out with the ones who don't get you anyway, so why worry about it? 
~Vibe~
~Vibe~
brucevangeorge
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Just use the same tactics you use on the chicks!! You can't go wrong!!
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Use this advice at your own risk. I am not responsible for any damage caused to you or those around you which are both physical and psychological in nature, nor is sosuave.net or affiliates responsible for your own being a dip****.
Just make it a habit to hold, scratch, or at the least, tease your crotch while around the guys. Should be done with a macho manner without looking directly at any of the guys while doing this. Hawk loogies every now and then.
Tha Realnezz
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I don't hang out exclusivley with women but with men I don't like too either cuz there's alot of undercover haters out there.****,most are or either think they're players and can't take it when you succeed.
Don't belive me?Ok,next time you're at the club or talking to some chics in general just take a glance at how your boy is looking at you.Especially the ones that think they're toughguys.
I like plexing on guys(showing off hard) sometimes honestly cuz i've been hated on so much since I've been back in america that you'd think I was fawking every girl in the world at least.
Hate runs deep in american men and it's one of the reasons they don't get laid the same as say Euro's or Latinos.
Even black men--who you'd think show love to another black man getting it.Hate ..even worse i'd say cuz they try to bring you down when they see you progressing especially with money and women.
It sucks,man.But I've gotten used to it.
Let them call me pretty boy or fag or whatever.I'm fawking these *****es with no pity from now on.
They should be thanking me.
One.
Don't belive me?Ok,next time you're at the club or talking to some chics in general just take a glance at how your boy is looking at you.Especially the ones that think they're toughguys.
I like plexing on guys(showing off hard) sometimes honestly cuz i've been hated on so much since I've been back in america that you'd think I was fawking every girl in the world at least.
Hate runs deep in american men and it's one of the reasons they don't get laid the same as say Euro's or Latinos.
Even black men--who you'd think show love to another black man getting it.Hate ..even worse i'd say cuz they try to bring you down when they see you progressing especially with money and women.
It sucks,man.But I've gotten used to it.
Let them call me pretty boy or fag or whatever.I'm fawking these *****es with no pity from now on.
They should be thanking me.
One.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
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Master Don Juan
The thread title is seriously wrong.