hey there. Here's my problem, to girls I can talk very easily now(thanks to sites like these), but with guys I have problems being "myself". I think this is hindering my progress in making male friends. Has anyone been through this? how did you overcome it? Advice and tips are welcome.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Vibe
Don Juan
You've become so used to having "tactics" to fall back on that when you speak to guys, you don't know "how" to act. Just act like yourself. No worries. Some guys won't get you and some guys will. It's not like you wanna hang out with the ones who don't get you anyway, so why worry about it? 
~Vibe~
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brucevangeorge
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Just use the same tactics you use on the chicks!! You can't go wrong!!
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Use this advice at your own risk. I am not responsible for any damage caused to you or those around you which are both physical and psychological in nature, nor is sosuave.net or affiliates responsible for your own being a dip****.
Just make it a habit to hold, scratch, or at the least, tease your crotch while around the guys. Should be done with a macho manner without looking directly at any of the guys while doing this. Hawk loogies every now and then.
Tha Realnezz
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I don't hang out exclusivley with women but with men I don't like too either cuz there's alot of undercover haters out there.****,most are or either think they're players and can't take it when you succeed.
Don't belive me?Ok,next time you're at the club or talking to some chics in general just take a glance at how your boy is looking at you.Especially the ones that think they're toughguys.
I like plexing on guys(showing off hard) sometimes honestly cuz i've been hated on so much since I've been back in america that you'd think I was fawking every girl in the world at least.
Hate runs deep in american men and it's one of the reasons they don't get laid the same as say Euro's or Latinos.
Even black men--who you'd think show love to another black man getting it.Hate ..even worse i'd say cuz they try to bring you down when they see you progressing especially with money and women.
It sucks,man.But I've gotten used to it.
Let them call me pretty boy or fag or whatever.I'm fawking these *****es with no pity from now on.
They should be thanking me.
One.
Don't belive me?Ok,next time you're at the club or talking to some chics in general just take a glance at how your boy is looking at you.Especially the ones that think they're toughguys.
I like plexing on guys(showing off hard) sometimes honestly cuz i've been hated on so much since I've been back in america that you'd think I was fawking every girl in the world at least.
Hate runs deep in american men and it's one of the reasons they don't get laid the same as say Euro's or Latinos.
Even black men--who you'd think show love to another black man getting it.Hate ..even worse i'd say cuz they try to bring you down when they see you progressing especially with money and women.
It sucks,man.But I've gotten used to it.
Let them call me pretty boy or fag or whatever.I'm fawking these *****es with no pity from now on.
They should be thanking me.
One.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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Master Don Juan
The thread title is seriously wrong.