hey there. Here's my problem, to girls I can talk very easily now(thanks to sites like these), but with guys I have problems being "myself". I think this is hindering my progress in making male friends. Has anyone been through this? how did you overcome it? Advice and tips are welcome.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
help loosening up around guys
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Vibe
Don Juan
You've become so used to having "tactics" to fall back on that when you speak to guys, you don't know "how" to act. Just act like yourself. No worries. Some guys won't get you and some guys will. It's not like you wanna hang out with the ones who don't get you anyway, so why worry about it? 
~Vibe~
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brucevangeorge
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Just use the same tactics you use on the chicks!! You can't go wrong!!
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Just make it a habit to hold, scratch, or at the least, tease your crotch while around the guys. Should be done with a macho manner without looking directly at any of the guys while doing this. Hawk loogies every now and then.
Tha Realnezz
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I don't hang out exclusivley with women but with men I don't like too either cuz there's alot of undercover haters out there.****,most are or either think they're players and can't take it when you succeed.
Don't belive me?Ok,next time you're at the club or talking to some chics in general just take a glance at how your boy is looking at you.Especially the ones that think they're toughguys.
I like plexing on guys(showing off hard) sometimes honestly cuz i've been hated on so much since I've been back in america that you'd think I was fawking every girl in the world at least.
Hate runs deep in american men and it's one of the reasons they don't get laid the same as say Euro's or Latinos.
Even black men--who you'd think show love to another black man getting it.Hate ..even worse i'd say cuz they try to bring you down when they see you progressing especially with money and women.
It sucks,man.But I've gotten used to it.
Let them call me pretty boy or fag or whatever.I'm fawking these *****es with no pity from now on.
They should be thanking me.
One.
Don't belive me?Ok,next time you're at the club or talking to some chics in general just take a glance at how your boy is looking at you.Especially the ones that think they're toughguys.
I like plexing on guys(showing off hard) sometimes honestly cuz i've been hated on so much since I've been back in america that you'd think I was fawking every girl in the world at least.
Hate runs deep in american men and it's one of the reasons they don't get laid the same as say Euro's or Latinos.
Even black men--who you'd think show love to another black man getting it.Hate ..even worse i'd say cuz they try to bring you down when they see you progressing especially with money and women.
It sucks,man.But I've gotten used to it.
Let them call me pretty boy or fag or whatever.I'm fawking these *****es with no pity from now on.
They should be thanking me.
One.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
aftershock
Master Don Juan
The thread title is seriously wrong.