hey there. Here's my problem, to girls I can talk very easily now(thanks to sites like these), but with guys I have problems being "myself". I think this is hindering my progress in making male friends. Has anyone been through this? how did you overcome it? Advice and tips are welcome.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Vibe
Don Juan
You've become so used to having "tactics" to fall back on that when you speak to guys, you don't know "how" to act. Just act like yourself. No worries. Some guys won't get you and some guys will. It's not like you wanna hang out with the ones who don't get you anyway, so why worry about it? 
~Vibe~
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brucevangeorge
Banned
Just use the same tactics you use on the chicks!! You can't go wrong!!
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Just make it a habit to hold, scratch, or at the least, tease your crotch while around the guys. Should be done with a macho manner without looking directly at any of the guys while doing this. Hawk loogies every now and then.
Tha Realnezz
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I don't hang out exclusivley with women but with men I don't like too either cuz there's alot of undercover haters out there.****,most are or either think they're players and can't take it when you succeed.
Don't belive me?Ok,next time you're at the club or talking to some chics in general just take a glance at how your boy is looking at you.Especially the ones that think they're toughguys.
I like plexing on guys(showing off hard) sometimes honestly cuz i've been hated on so much since I've been back in america that you'd think I was fawking every girl in the world at least.
Hate runs deep in american men and it's one of the reasons they don't get laid the same as say Euro's or Latinos.
Even black men--who you'd think show love to another black man getting it.Hate ..even worse i'd say cuz they try to bring you down when they see you progressing especially with money and women.
It sucks,man.But I've gotten used to it.
Let them call me pretty boy or fag or whatever.I'm fawking these *****es with no pity from now on.
They should be thanking me.
One.
Don't belive me?Ok,next time you're at the club or talking to some chics in general just take a glance at how your boy is looking at you.Especially the ones that think they're toughguys.
I like plexing on guys(showing off hard) sometimes honestly cuz i've been hated on so much since I've been back in america that you'd think I was fawking every girl in the world at least.
Hate runs deep in american men and it's one of the reasons they don't get laid the same as say Euro's or Latinos.
Even black men--who you'd think show love to another black man getting it.Hate ..even worse i'd say cuz they try to bring you down when they see you progressing especially with money and women.
It sucks,man.But I've gotten used to it.
Let them call me pretty boy or fag or whatever.I'm fawking these *****es with no pity from now on.
They should be thanking me.
One.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
aftershock
Master Don Juan
The thread title is seriously wrong.