Im a freshman in colllege, and i go to BU, which is a huge school of 20000 people. People in my school either go clubbing or go partying in frat houses and apartments that are not part of the campus. I get numbers no problem. My question is people dont really date in college the way the DJ bible talks about, so what some ideas for things to do to get things going? fun, action ideas are welcomed
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
help in college
- Thread starter Bigworm
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
diablo
Master Don Juan
How do people date, then?
A vast number of us on the forum are in college and this is the first I've heard of this being a problem... what specifically isn't applicable to people who are in our situation? Inquiring minds want to know...Go to parties, meet girls, bring them back to your room.
Intro to ONS: What Every College Student Should Know
Intro to ONS: What Every College Student Should Know
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
thax a lot for the link. I guess what im talking about is that u wouldnt tell a girl in college to go out to have coffee -- or go to an expensive dinner on the first date... and anyway those things come off as making u lame. u can hook up with some girls at parties but overrall if u want any quality girls is kinna hard without a plan of action.