Im a freshman in colllege, and i go to BU, which is a huge school of 20000 people. People in my school either go clubbing or go partying in frat houses and apartments that are not part of the campus. I get numbers no problem. My question is people dont really date in college the way the DJ bible talks about, so what some ideas for things to do to get things going? fun, action ideas are welcomed
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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
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- Thread starter Bigworm
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diablo
Master Don Juan
How do people date, then?
A vast number of us on the forum are in college and this is the first I've heard of this being a problem... what specifically isn't applicable to people who are in our situation? Inquiring minds want to know...Go to parties, meet girls, bring them back to your room.
Intro to ONS: What Every College Student Should Know
Intro to ONS: What Every College Student Should Know
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
thax a lot for the link. I guess what im talking about is that u wouldnt tell a girl in college to go out to have coffee -- or go to an expensive dinner on the first date... and anyway those things come off as making u lame. u can hook up with some girls at parties but overrall if u want any quality girls is kinna hard without a plan of action.