Im a freshman in colllege, and i go to BU, which is a huge school of 20000 people. People in my school either go clubbing or go partying in frat houses and apartments that are not part of the campus. I get numbers no problem. My question is people dont really date in college the way the DJ bible talks about, so what some ideas for things to do to get things going? fun, action ideas are welcomed
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- Thread starter Bigworm
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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
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diablo
Master Don Juan
How do people date, then?
A vast number of us on the forum are in college and this is the first I've heard of this being a problem... what specifically isn't applicable to people who are in our situation? Inquiring minds want to know...Go to parties, meet girls, bring them back to your room.
Intro to ONS: What Every College Student Should Know
Intro to ONS: What Every College Student Should Know
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
thax a lot for the link. I guess what im talking about is that u wouldnt tell a girl in college to go out to have coffee -- or go to an expensive dinner on the first date... and anyway those things come off as making u lame. u can hook up with some girls at parties but overrall if u want any quality girls is kinna hard without a plan of action.