Help! I'm paranoid and care way too much about what others are thinking about me!

[Patrick124]

so are u autistic? lol i love how people turn to blame diseases/disorders for their problems.

 

[Viper]

Originally posted by Patrick124
so are u autistic? lol i love how people turn to blame diseases/disorders for their problems.

Only losers bring up something from over a month ago, you see, DJs know how to let things go.

 

[DogFashionDisco]

Originally posted by Viper
Only losers bring up something from over a month ago, you see, DJs know how to let things go.

Yep, you're a joke.


It's getting old man.



douche.

 

[i am me]

Viper, could you do us a favor and only reply to the posts that you found helpful? Not the ones that you think are offensive....afterall, you shouldn't care what people on the internet say about you anyway...

 

[AC/DC]

Originally posted by Viper
You know what dude, quite, I don't need to hear your ramblings. If you want to accuse me of being a troll, don't do that sh*t in my topic, because I don't want to f*cking hear it.

Shut up beezy. Don't talk to your daddy like that.

 

[08aisaac]

OH WOW. I haven't been here in like, 3 months or something. And Viper's still here?
Maybe it hasn't been that long.
Umm, Viper...
Have you read Double your Dating by David D?
It's actually a really good book. You should invest some money, and purchase it.
Very useful information, like how to be cool, and enjoy life.
I benefitted from it a lot. You would too.

 

[Holland]

I've never freaked out over someone giving me advice, it's when people talk sh*t and critisize me about something they don't know anything about. Just like you are right now.

Now, that's a nice reply.
But still, I think criticising is good, as long as it is positive criticing. I know there has been bad criticising in here too, you're right about that. But I still recommend that you're more open too some critics that you might not like to hear.

As for the topic of this thread:

I used to care about what other people think of me too. With me it was only in certain situations. Mostly at school and/or in places where I didn't know people that well.
The way I think right now is:
-These are people that don't or barely know me, so they aren't even thinking about me. I mean do you think something about someone who you barely know all the time, when you're in a pretty busy place? No, off course not, so you can be pretty sure, they aren't either.
-Even if there where a few off all these people that did think bad things about me, would they be worth my time over all the other people who wouldn't?

I'm going to try and reframe you:

Answer the next questions to yourself



-What is it exactly about them that makes you think that they would be thinking bad of you?

-Are you saying, that, if I would join wrestling tomorrow (note: I have never wrestled before, and know absolutely nothing about it), and I would have a wrestling day with lots of people, then they would all think I'm a loser for being a beginner?

-How does the actual process go, from them not knowing you at all, to -> them thinking you're a loser for being a beginner?

-Has there been a time that you thought that people thought you were a loser, but when they didn't (and maybe even liked you)?


(note: these answers are not to offend you or your thinking, they are to make you see things in another way)

 

[oakraiderz2]

Why are you so angry? Stop being such an ass and start to have fun. This sh*t has gotten out of control. I understand how you are irritated and insist that youre correct, BUT when everyone says the samethings about you there MIGHT be some truth and something you want to listen to.

 

[sjchris]

Heres what you guys don't get:

By keep posting replies to this loser, you're only giving him exactly what he wants: ATTENTION. He craves it, he's starving for it. Every post you keep making fun of him only gives him more of an illusion that anybody actually gives a sh.it about his existance. He isn't looking for advice at all, he's looking for an audience to show off what an immature passive aggressive little fu.ck he is. Get it?

 

[Viper]

Originally posted by Holland
Now, that's a nice reply.
But still, I think criticising is good, as long as it is positive criticing. I know there has been bad criticising in here too, you're right about that. But I still recommend that you're more open too some critics that you might not like to hear.

As for the topic of this thread:

I used to care about what other people think of me too. With me it was only in certain situations. Mostly at school and/or in places where I didn't know people that well.
The way I think right now is:
-These are people that don't or barely know me, so they aren't even thinking about me. I mean do you think something about someone who you barely know all the time, when you're in a pretty busy place? No, off course not, so you can be pretty sure, they aren't either.
-Even if there where a few off all these people that did think bad things about me, would they be worth my time over all the other people who wouldn't?

I'm going to try and reframe you:

Answer the next questions to yourself



-What is it exactly about them that makes you think that they would be thinking bad of you?

-Are you saying, that, if I would join wrestling tomorrow (note: I have never wrestled before, and know absolutely nothing about it), and I would have a wrestling day with lots of people, then they would all think I'm a loser for being a beginner?

-How does the actual process go, from them not knowing you at all, to -> them thinking you're a loser for being a beginner?

-Has there been a time that you thought that people thought you were a loser, but when they didn't (and maybe even liked you)?


(note: these answers are not to offend you or your thinking, they are to make you see things in another way)

Believe or not there was a time where I actually use to not care what people thought, but because of my damn parents deciding move, things went downhill. Damn them, I had a lot of friends, a lot of girls liked me, most people, even those who didn't know me, thought I was cool, there was even this one girl that I probably WOULD have had a chance dating the next year, HAD MY PARENTS NOT MOVED(She even teased me, asking if I would be her boyfriend a couple of times)! This new school is just so different from my old one, it just doesn't feel the same, the types of people you find here are different, the environment is different, it's been very hard to adapt to. I don't know, something just happened when I moved, that set me off and ruined my self-esteem. My only connection with my old school, is that there's this one guy in my grade, who has a few friends that go there.

Thanks dude, I read over the advice and it definitely gives me a new insight on the thing, this is definitely going to help me fix the problem. Not really much more I can comment on as far as that post goes.

But yeah, enough of this whining bullsh*t, I'm going to change! As much as I hate to admit, the only person that's been holding me back from becoming who I want to become, holding me back from improving, is myself and I'm tired of holding back.

 

[Quagmire911]

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F****** go for it, and good luck

Quagmire

 

[DJ4Real]

Originally posted by Viper
Believe or not there was a time where I actually use to not care what people thought, but because of my damn parents deciding move, things went downhill. Damn them, I had a lot of friends, a lot of girls liked me, most people, even those who didn't know me, thought I was cool, there was even this one girl that I probably WOULD have had a chance dating the next year, HAD MY PARENTS NOT MOVED(She even teased me, asking if I would be her boyfriend a couple of times)! This new school is just so different from my old one, it just doesn't feel the same, the types of people you find here are different, the environment is different, it's been very hard to adapt to. I don't know, something just happened when I moved, that set me off and ruined my self-esteem. My only connection with my old school, is that there's this one guy in my grade, who has a few friends that go there.

Thanks dude, I read over the advice and it definitely gives me a new insight on the thing, this is definitely going to help me fix the problem. Not really much more I can comment on as far as that post goes.

But yeah, enough of this whining bullsh*t, I'm going to change! As much as I hate to admit, the only person that's been holding me back from becoming who I want to become, holding me back from improving, is myself and I'm tired of holding back.

*claps*

 

[Indie]

Personality Disorder

Sorry, but normal people don't think about that sort of thing that much and this forum is certainly of no use to you. http://www.4degreez.com/misc/personality_disorder_test.mv
go on that website, and answer 100% truthfully.

 

[AC/DC]

THIS IS WHAT I WANNA HEAR FROM YOU BABY!

LET'S DO THIS!!

Originally posted by Viper
Believe or not there was a time where I actually use to not care what people thought, but because of my damn parents deciding move, things went downhill. Damn them, I had a lot of friends, a lot of girls liked me, most people, even those who didn't know me, thought I was cool, there was even this one girl that I probably WOULD have had a chance dating the next year, HAD MY PARENTS NOT MOVED(She even teased me, asking if I would be her boyfriend a couple of times)! This new school is just so different from my old one, it just doesn't feel the same, the types of people you find here are different, the environment is different, it's been very hard to adapt to. I don't know, something just happened when I moved, that set me off and ruined my self-esteem. My only connection with my old school, is that there's this one guy in my grade, who has a few friends that go there.

Thanks dude, I read over the advice and it definitely gives me a new insight on the thing, this is definitely going to help me fix the problem. Not really much more I can comment on as far as that post goes.

But yeah, enough of this whining bullsh*t, I'm going to change! As much as I hate to admit, the only person that's been holding me back from becoming who I want to become, holding me back from improving, is myself and I'm tired of holding back.

 

[Viper]

Re: Personality Disorder

Originally posted by Indie
Sorry, but normal people don't think about that sort of thing that much and this forum is certainly of no use to you. http://www.4degreez.com/misc/personality_disorder_test.mv
go on that website, and answer 100% truthfully.

You know online test prove NOTHING right? Besides, there's a difference between just being paranoid and having the disease called "paranoia", it's much more severe.

 

[Taviii]

Re: Personality Disorder

Originally posted by Indie
Sorry, but normal people don't think about that sort of thing that much and this forum is certainly of no use to you. http://www.4degreez.com/misc/personality_disorder_test.mv
go on that website, and answer 100% truthfully.

lloooll I am Narcissistic and Antisocial hehehe
:crackup:

 

[shadowfox]

lol im histrionic

"People with histrionic personality disorder are constant attention seekers. They need to be the center of attention all the time, often interrupting others in order to dominate the conversation. They use grandiose language to discribe everyday events and seek constant praise. They may dress provacatively or exaggerate illnesses in order to gain attention. Histrionics also tend to exaggerate friendships and relationships, believing that everyone loves them. They are often manipulative."

 

[oakraiderz2]

Re: Personality Disorder

Originally posted by Indie
Sorry, but normal people don't think about that sort of thing that much and this forum is certainly of no use to you. http://www.4degreez.com/misc/personality_disorder_test.mv
go on that website, and answer 100% truthfully.

Wow im nothing. I think if you answered yes to enough of the questions to be labelled as something you probably have some problems. These questions are retarded. But i guess its not true so i really do have issues.. .

 

[Viper]

You know online tests prove nothing right?

 

[tigre]

bump!