"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Help, I'm caught in a delemma

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Long story short, I have a 5 min convo with this drunk chick and she keeps telling me how hot I am and how she likes other body parts of me. Lets say she said this repeatly, but I leave and her friend tells me she was crazy about me and loved people of my race. I tell my friends what happened and they tell me I suck and that I should have gotten her number or something because I was in there, so they tell this chick to add me on facebook and she does. Should I even waste my time and what I do? I wanna get laid bros
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How is this a dilemma? You have nothing to lose and everything to gain by inviting her out for a drink.
 
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Do I do it through facebook to het her #. What if she rarely logs on.
 
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It's 2012, she's young... she'll be online. If she likes you, it really doesn't matter how you ask her out. Go for it!
 
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will it be creepy because it happened last week, but she sent the friend request yesterday. I think she remembers because of something I don't feel like explaining.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Ringleader41 said:
Do I do it through facebook to het her #. What if she rarely logs on.
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Ringleader41 said:
will it be creepy because it happened last week, but she sent the friend request yesterday. I think she remembers because of something I don't feel like explaining.
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In case you guys aren't picking up on the routine, Ringleader is the type of troll that lures you in by asking new questions no matter how detailed your answers are.

I recommend ignoring him and focusing your attention on real posters who have real questions.
 
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Ringleader41 said:
will it be creepy because it happened last week, but she sent the friend request yesterday. I think she remembers because of something I don't feel like explaining.
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If she's the one who sent the request then it doesn't matter how much time has passed.
 
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