"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Long story short, I have a 5 min convo with this drunk chick and she keeps telling me how hot I am and how she likes other body parts of me. Lets say she said this repeatly, but I leave and her friend tells me she was crazy about me and loved people of my race. I tell my friends what happened and they tell me I suck and that I should have gotten her number or something because I was in there, so they tell this chick to add me on facebook and she does. Should I even waste my time and what I do? I wanna get laid bros
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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How is this a dilemma? You have nothing to lose and everything to gain by inviting her out for a drink.
 
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Do I do it through facebook to het her #. What if she rarely logs on.
 
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It's 2012, she's young... she'll be online. If she likes you, it really doesn't matter how you ask her out. Go for it!
 
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will it be creepy because it happened last week, but she sent the friend request yesterday. I think she remembers because of something I don't feel like explaining.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Ringleader41 said:
Do I do it through facebook to het her #. What if she rarely logs on.
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Ringleader41 said:
will it be creepy because it happened last week, but she sent the friend request yesterday. I think she remembers because of something I don't feel like explaining.
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In case you guys aren't picking up on the routine, Ringleader is the type of troll that lures you in by asking new questions no matter how detailed your answers are.

I recommend ignoring him and focusing your attention on real posters who have real questions.
 
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Ringleader41 said:
will it be creepy because it happened last week, but she sent the friend request yesterday. I think she remembers because of something I don't feel like explaining.
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If she's the one who sent the request then it doesn't matter how much time has passed.
 
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