“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Face wise you aren't a bad looking guy at all. Good looking face, though if I were to be honest and I saw you walking down the street? I would think to myself there is a chance you are gay. You just kinda have that "look" to me. Plus, you are Asian, which at least in the US puts you at a slight disadvantage, even with other Asian girls, let alone white ones.

Hard to tell on body, looks like you may be kinda short? Height and weight?
 

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my ideal weight is 130-140 and i'm 5'6. So my look is not a disadvantage right?
 

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thanks for your reply. do you think i can end up with a cute girl? my previous and only gf was not very cute and I don't want to put up with that again. They don't need to be super hot but they do need to be attractive.
 

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ImWithTheDJ said:
thanks for your reply. do you think i can end up with a cute girl? my previous and only gf was not very cute and I don't want to put up with that again. They don't need to be super hot but they do need to be attractive.
Well if you are 5"6" then you for sure need to hit the weights and hit them hard. You are going to have to develop a strong, lean body to compensate for your lack of height.

But as far as your face? Yes like I said you have a good looking face, but it gives off a gay vibe to me. But, some girls like that. I would think you should be able to get a cute Asian girl no problem. A white girl? Will probably be a little harder to pull off. They don't usually go for the smaller Asian dudes. I live in the LA area and I never see it. See a ton of Asian girls with white guys though. And of course with other Asian guys as well.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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ImWithTheDJ said:
This was my body a few years ago..

http://a6.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/photos-ak-ash1/v195/79/20/6012407/n6012407_37069232_8920.jpg

right now i'm f*cken fat! but i'm working on regaining my old self.
Hard to believe you could be fat, but I'll take your word for it haha. But yeah, you scream GAY to me. I know your not, but that is something you may want to work on. For sure by getting more bulk by heavy lifting, but also via your haircut, facial hair, etc. But I don't think you are a lost cause by any means.
 

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Lol, i figure i'm a good looking guy but just had to make sure that i'm not the only person who think so.
 

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yah, im giving myself half a yeaer time frame to get my **** together because right now i'm unemployed and fat so im a little bit insecure.
 
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