Help! I need your opinion!

[ImWithTheDJ]

Ok, first I want to know if you guys think i'm cute or good looking. Base on my look, what type of girl can I get? Please be honest, be brutal if you have to as long as you don't hate so here are my pics

http://a5.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/photos-ak-ash1/v236/79/20/6012407/n6012407_37595931_6810.jpg

http://a6.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc6/68746_995344334871_6012407_51966062_2796176_n.jpg

Thanks

 

[cordoncordon]

Face wise you aren't a bad looking guy at all. Good looking face, though if I were to be honest and I saw you walking down the street? I would think to myself there is a chance you are gay. You just kinda have that "look" to me. Plus, you are Asian, which at least in the US puts you at a slight disadvantage, even with other Asian girls, let alone white ones.

Hard to tell on body, looks like you may be kinda short? Height and weight?

 

[ImWithTheDJ]

my ideal weight is 130-140 and i'm 5'6. So my look is not a disadvantage right?

 

[ImWithTheDJ]

thanks for your reply. do you think i can end up with a cute girl? my previous and only gf was not very cute and I don't want to put up with that again. They don't need to be super hot but they do need to be attractive.

 

[cordoncordon]

thanks for your reply. do you think i can end up with a cute girl? my previous and only gf was not very cute and I don't want to put up with that again. They don't need to be super hot but they do need to be attractive.

Well if you are 5"6" then you for sure need to hit the weights and hit them hard. You are going to have to develop a strong, lean body to compensate for your lack of height.

But as far as your face? Yes like I said you have a good looking face, but it gives off a gay vibe to me. But, some girls like that. I would think you should be able to get a cute Asian girl no problem. A white girl? Will probably be a little harder to pull off. They don't usually go for the smaller Asian dudes. I live in the LA area and I never see it. See a ton of Asian girls with white guys though. And of course with other Asian guys as well.

 

[ImWithTheDJ]

This was my body a few years ago..

http://a6.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/photos-ak-ash1/v195/79/20/6012407/n6012407_37069232_8920.jpg

right now i'm f*cken fat! but i'm working on regaining my old self.

 

[cordoncordon]

This was my body a few years ago..

http://a6.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/photos-ak-ash1/v195/79/20/6012407/n6012407_37069232_8920.jpg

right now i'm f*cken fat! but i'm working on regaining my old self.

Hard to believe you could be fat, but I'll take your word for it haha. But yeah, you scream GAY to me. I know your not, but that is something you may want to work on. For sure by getting more bulk by heavy lifting, but also via your haircut, facial hair, etc. But I don't think you are a lost cause by any means.

 

[ImWithTheDJ]

Lol, i figure i'm a good looking guy but just had to make sure that i'm not the only person who think so.

 

[ImWithTheDJ]

yah, im giving myself half a yeaer time frame to get my **** together because right now i'm unemployed and fat so im a little bit insecure.