Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
In other words: She tells you (...) and her girlfriend tells you (...)Ok here is the reasons that i believe she is who she says she is
1. she tells me she is constantly bored
2. her friend bet my roommate 20 dollars that we wouldn't have sex because "thats not who she is"
3. She is constantly busy with work and school.
4. I have yet to catch her lying to me.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Good Luck!But if shes a wh0re i dont care. Anyway i want to thank you guys for the advice.
Lol, that's what her bf keeps telling himself, I'm sure...I Love Life said:i know she is not a slut.
As if she's actually gone to come out and say "Oh by the way, you're not the first guy I've sleeped with outside of the relationship with my boyfriend."I Love Life said:Im not gonna say i know for 100% that i was her first outside of her bf but the way she talks and the way her friends talk im about 99% its true. so should i take this as IOI or that she was just using me to figure things out?
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Actually, I think it would be a good, fair idea.soontobesuave said:but telling her boyfriend. thats a c*nt's trick.
wayword said:Actually, I think it would be a good, fair idea.
It would be doing her bf a favor to let him know his girl is a ho...and also help teach her a good lesson. Otherwise, he's only enabling all the cheating sluts in this country...
Just save a text message from her or have some other evidence proving you had carnal knowledge.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Are you serious man? Have you ever head of a "crime of passion?"I Love Life said:Ok guys thanks for the reality checks. Im gonna give her until the end of the weekend to call me and if she doesn't, sh!t is gonna hit the fan. Im gonna call her out on whether shes been lying to me and if i get the slightest hint that shes using me as a tool im going to tell her boyfriend that i slept with her. i'll keep you guys updated if you want.
CitizenOfTheWorld84 said:In France we have a saying, I will translate it to English as best I can.
'Bed with a dog and you are not better than a dog'
It is said more eloquently in France but it has the same meaning.
The only thing i have changed about myself is that i've taken up a higher value of identity around her. Im still the same person she met a year ago. But yeah i think you're right about there being a lesson to be learned. I really dont want to mess up her life but i've been nothing but honest with her from the get go and she made me percieve an image of herself that was total bullsh!t. Which was probably my fault or the fact that i lack experience with sluts. Anyway your right it probably was a mistake hooking up with this girl, but im still naive and lack experience and its nothing i can take back.squirrels said:This is a prime example of what happens when you "use the DJ techniques" that are incongruent with your style...you get yourself into more of a mess than you can handle.
Now we have a chump who's in love with a wh0re who is still worrying about her ex-boyfriend, and all he can think about is how he can live happily ever after with her and how to CHANGE HIMSELF to meet HER expectations.
It's sickening...only because a lot of us have been there before.
I Love Life, watch what happens when you put on a pair of shoes that's too big for you. Let it be a lesson to you. Then grow bigger feet.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.