Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
In other words: She tells you (...) and her girlfriend tells you (...)Ok here is the reasons that i believe she is who she says she is
1. she tells me she is constantly bored
2. her friend bet my roommate 20 dollars that we wouldn't have sex because "thats not who she is"
3. She is constantly busy with work and school.
4. I have yet to catch her lying to me.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Good Luck!But if shes a wh0re i dont care. Anyway i want to thank you guys for the advice.
Lol, that's what her bf keeps telling himself, I'm sure...I Love Life said:i know she is not a slut.
As if she's actually gone to come out and say "Oh by the way, you're not the first guy I've sleeped with outside of the relationship with my boyfriend."I Love Life said:Im not gonna say i know for 100% that i was her first outside of her bf but the way she talks and the way her friends talk im about 99% its true. so should i take this as IOI or that she was just using me to figure things out?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Actually, I think it would be a good, fair idea.soontobesuave said:but telling her boyfriend. thats a c*nt's trick.
wayword said:Actually, I think it would be a good, fair idea.
It would be doing her bf a favor to let him know his girl is a ho...and also help teach her a good lesson. Otherwise, he's only enabling all the cheating sluts in this country...
Just save a text message from her or have some other evidence proving you had carnal knowledge.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Are you serious man? Have you ever head of a "crime of passion?"I Love Life said:Ok guys thanks for the reality checks. Im gonna give her until the end of the weekend to call me and if she doesn't, sh!t is gonna hit the fan. Im gonna call her out on whether shes been lying to me and if i get the slightest hint that shes using me as a tool im going to tell her boyfriend that i slept with her. i'll keep you guys updated if you want.
CitizenOfTheWorld84 said:In France we have a saying, I will translate it to English as best I can.
'Bed with a dog and you are not better than a dog'
It is said more eloquently in France but it has the same meaning.
The only thing i have changed about myself is that i've taken up a higher value of identity around her. Im still the same person she met a year ago. But yeah i think you're right about there being a lesson to be learned. I really dont want to mess up her life but i've been nothing but honest with her from the get go and she made me percieve an image of herself that was total bullsh!t. Which was probably my fault or the fact that i lack experience with sluts. Anyway your right it probably was a mistake hooking up with this girl, but im still naive and lack experience and its nothing i can take back.squirrels said:This is a prime example of what happens when you "use the DJ techniques" that are incongruent with your style...you get yourself into more of a mess than you can handle.
Now we have a chump who's in love with a wh0re who is still worrying about her ex-boyfriend, and all he can think about is how he can live happily ever after with her and how to CHANGE HIMSELF to meet HER expectations.
It's sickening...only because a lot of us have been there before.
I Love Life, watch what happens when you put on a pair of shoes that's too big for you. Let it be a lesson to you. Then grow bigger feet.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.