You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
In other words: She tells you (...) and her girlfriend tells you (...)Ok here is the reasons that i believe she is who she says she is
1. she tells me she is constantly bored
2. her friend bet my roommate 20 dollars that we wouldn't have sex because "thats not who she is"
3. She is constantly busy with work and school.
4. I have yet to catch her lying to me.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Good Luck!But if shes a wh0re i dont care. Anyway i want to thank you guys for the advice.
Lol, that's what her bf keeps telling himself, I'm sure...I Love Life said:i know she is not a slut.
As if she's actually gone to come out and say "Oh by the way, you're not the first guy I've sleeped with outside of the relationship with my boyfriend."I Love Life said:Im not gonna say i know for 100% that i was her first outside of her bf but the way she talks and the way her friends talk im about 99% its true. so should i take this as IOI or that she was just using me to figure things out?
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Actually, I think it would be a good, fair idea.soontobesuave said:but telling her boyfriend. thats a c*nt's trick.
wayword said:Actually, I think it would be a good, fair idea.
It would be doing her bf a favor to let him know his girl is a ho...and also help teach her a good lesson. Otherwise, he's only enabling all the cheating sluts in this country...
Just save a text message from her or have some other evidence proving you had carnal knowledge.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Are you serious man? Have you ever head of a "crime of passion?"I Love Life said:Ok guys thanks for the reality checks. Im gonna give her until the end of the weekend to call me and if she doesn't, sh!t is gonna hit the fan. Im gonna call her out on whether shes been lying to me and if i get the slightest hint that shes using me as a tool im going to tell her boyfriend that i slept with her. i'll keep you guys updated if you want.
CitizenOfTheWorld84 said:In France we have a saying, I will translate it to English as best I can.
'Bed with a dog and you are not better than a dog'
It is said more eloquently in France but it has the same meaning.
The only thing i have changed about myself is that i've taken up a higher value of identity around her. Im still the same person she met a year ago. But yeah i think you're right about there being a lesson to be learned. I really dont want to mess up her life but i've been nothing but honest with her from the get go and she made me percieve an image of herself that was total bullsh!t. Which was probably my fault or the fact that i lack experience with sluts. Anyway your right it probably was a mistake hooking up with this girl, but im still naive and lack experience and its nothing i can take back.squirrels said:This is a prime example of what happens when you "use the DJ techniques" that are incongruent with your style...you get yourself into more of a mess than you can handle.
Now we have a chump who's in love with a wh0re who is still worrying about her ex-boyfriend, and all he can think about is how he can live happily ever after with her and how to CHANGE HIMSELF to meet HER expectations.
It's sickening...only because a lot of us have been there before.
I Love Life, watch what happens when you put on a pair of shoes that's too big for you. Let it be a lesson to you. Then grow bigger feet.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.