"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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DonCharlie24

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ok, im a freshamn, bout to be a sophmore in highschool, and theres this girl that ive known for about 2 years, we've never really been friends, just the occasional "hey" whenever we cross each other in the hallway.

Until Recently, we've never really had a conversation. ive always wanted to persue this girl and i just now started on her. i did everything. im pretty sure i have this girl right where i want to. but theres just one question that has been boggiling me. here is the convo we just have

her: nuthin jus chillin n u?
me:just kinda hanging out
her : who u jus hanging wit
Her: no
Me: cynthia
her: who is dat?
me: a lady friend of mine
her: umm
her: den y are u talkin to me?
me : cause she is in the shower and...u imed me?
her: she in da shower at ur house?
me: yep yep yep
her: ummmm..........
her: wat yall do?
me: she is getting out, i gtg, audios senorita


i kinda cut her off to get her to think about what i could be doing, but i never stated to her it was my gf or anything, so

Does it neccessarily mean anything when they show intrest on who ur with and what ur doing with them?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by DonCharlie24
ok, im a freshamn, bout to be a sophmore in highschool, and theres this girl that ive known for about 2 years, we've never really been friends, just the occasional "hey" whenever we cross each other in the hallway.

Until Recently, we've never really had a conversation. ive always wanted to persue this girl and i just now started on her. i did everything. im pretty sure i have this girl right where i want to. but theres just one question that has been boggiling me. here is the convo we just have

her: nuthin jus chillin n u?
me:just kinda hanging out
her : who u jus hanging wit
Her: no
Me: cynthia
her: who is dat?
me: a lady friend of mine
her: umm
her: den y are u talkin to me?
me : cause she is in the shower and...u imed me?
her: she in da shower at ur house?
me: yep yep yep
her: ummmm..........
her: wat yall do?
me: she is getting out, i gtg, audios senorita


i kinda cut her off to get her to think about what i could be doing, but i never stated to her it was my gf or anything, so

Does it neccessarily mean anything when they show intrest on who ur with and what ur doing with them?
She is likes you. No doubt about that.

"her: who is dat?
me: a lady friend of mine
her: umm
her: den y are u talkin to me?" -- This says it all.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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LikRetsam

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No no, the serious problem here is your inability to speak proper english.
 

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Originally posted by LikRetsam
No no, the serious problem here is your inability to speak proper english.
I think the girl has a bigger problem "dan" him.
 

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Dey boat cant speek proper inglish.

Anyway, the girl seems interested. Btw, did you really had a girl in the shower or you lied?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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beginer

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First post, be gentle please

70% by eyeball but she could have just been playing.Though what was the situation and her tone?
 

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Don Charlie? Does "The Revolution" or californiaplaboy have any meaning to you? If not then I mistaked u for someone else.
 
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