"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DonCharlie24

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ok, im a freshamn, bout to be a sophmore in highschool, and theres this girl that ive known for about 2 years, we've never really been friends, just the occasional "hey" whenever we cross each other in the hallway.

Until Recently, we've never really had a conversation. ive always wanted to persue this girl and i just now started on her. i did everything. im pretty sure i have this girl right where i want to. but theres just one question that has been boggiling me. here is the convo we just have

her: nuthin jus chillin n u?
me:just kinda hanging out
her : who u jus hanging wit
Her: no
Me: cynthia
her: who is dat?
me: a lady friend of mine
her: umm
her: den y are u talkin to me?
me : cause she is in the shower and...u imed me?
her: she in da shower at ur house?
me: yep yep yep
her: ummmm..........
her: wat yall do?
me: she is getting out, i gtg, audios senorita


i kinda cut her off to get her to think about what i could be doing, but i never stated to her it was my gf or anything, so

Does it neccessarily mean anything when they show intrest on who ur with and what ur doing with them?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Fitch

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Originally posted by DonCharlie24
ok, im a freshamn, bout to be a sophmore in highschool, and theres this girl that ive known for about 2 years, we've never really been friends, just the occasional "hey" whenever we cross each other in the hallway.

Until Recently, we've never really had a conversation. ive always wanted to persue this girl and i just now started on her. i did everything. im pretty sure i have this girl right where i want to. but theres just one question that has been boggiling me. here is the convo we just have

her: nuthin jus chillin n u?
me:just kinda hanging out
her : who u jus hanging wit
Her: no
Me: cynthia
her: who is dat?
me: a lady friend of mine
her: umm
her: den y are u talkin to me?
me : cause she is in the shower and...u imed me?
her: she in da shower at ur house?
me: yep yep yep
her: ummmm..........
her: wat yall do?
me: she is getting out, i gtg, audios senorita


i kinda cut her off to get her to think about what i could be doing, but i never stated to her it was my gf or anything, so

Does it neccessarily mean anything when they show intrest on who ur with and what ur doing with them?
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She is likes you. No doubt about that.

"her: who is dat?
me: a lady friend of mine
her: umm
her: den y are u talkin to me?" -- This says it all.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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LikRetsam

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No no, the serious problem here is your inability to speak proper english.
 
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Kerensky

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Originally posted by LikRetsam
No no, the serious problem here is your inability to speak proper english.
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I think the girl has a bigger problem "dan" him.
 
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Dey boat cant speek proper inglish.

Anyway, the girl seems interested. Btw, did you really had a girl in the shower or you lied?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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First post, be gentle please

70% by eyeball but she could have just been playing.Though what was the situation and her tone?
 
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A7Xx

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Don Charlie? Does "The Revolution" or californiaplaboy have any meaning to you? If not then I mistaked u for someone else.
 
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