"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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DonCharlie24

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ok, im a freshamn, bout to be a sophmore in highschool, and theres this girl that ive known for about 2 years, we've never really been friends, just the occasional "hey" whenever we cross each other in the hallway.

Until Recently, we've never really had a conversation. ive always wanted to persue this girl and i just now started on her. i did everything. im pretty sure i have this girl right where i want to. but theres just one question that has been boggiling me. here is the convo we just have

her: nuthin jus chillin n u?
me:just kinda hanging out
her : who u jus hanging wit
Her: no
Me: cynthia
her: who is dat?
me: a lady friend of mine
her: umm
her: den y are u talkin to me?
me : cause she is in the shower and...u imed me?
her: she in da shower at ur house?
me: yep yep yep
her: ummmm..........
her: wat yall do?
me: she is getting out, i gtg, audios senorita


i kinda cut her off to get her to think about what i could be doing, but i never stated to her it was my gf or anything, so

Does it neccessarily mean anything when they show intrest on who ur with and what ur doing with them?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by DonCharlie24
ok, im a freshamn, bout to be a sophmore in highschool, and theres this girl that ive known for about 2 years, we've never really been friends, just the occasional "hey" whenever we cross each other in the hallway.

Until Recently, we've never really had a conversation. ive always wanted to persue this girl and i just now started on her. i did everything. im pretty sure i have this girl right where i want to. but theres just one question that has been boggiling me. here is the convo we just have

her: nuthin jus chillin n u?
me:just kinda hanging out
her : who u jus hanging wit
Her: no
Me: cynthia
her: who is dat?
me: a lady friend of mine
her: umm
her: den y are u talkin to me?
me : cause she is in the shower and...u imed me?
her: she in da shower at ur house?
me: yep yep yep
her: ummmm..........
her: wat yall do?
me: she is getting out, i gtg, audios senorita


i kinda cut her off to get her to think about what i could be doing, but i never stated to her it was my gf or anything, so

Does it neccessarily mean anything when they show intrest on who ur with and what ur doing with them?
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She is likes you. No doubt about that.

"her: who is dat?
me: a lady friend of mine
her: umm
her: den y are u talkin to me?" -- This says it all.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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LikRetsam

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No no, the serious problem here is your inability to speak proper english.
 
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Originally posted by LikRetsam
No no, the serious problem here is your inability to speak proper english.
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I think the girl has a bigger problem "dan" him.
 
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Dey boat cant speek proper inglish.

Anyway, the girl seems interested. Btw, did you really had a girl in the shower or you lied?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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First post, be gentle please

70% by eyeball but she could have just been playing.Though what was the situation and her tone?
 
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Don Charlie? Does "The Revolution" or californiaplaboy have any meaning to you? If not then I mistaked u for someone else.
 
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