"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DonCharlie24

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ok, im a freshamn, bout to be a sophmore in highschool, and theres this girl that ive known for about 2 years, we've never really been friends, just the occasional "hey" whenever we cross each other in the hallway.

Until Recently, we've never really had a conversation. ive always wanted to persue this girl and i just now started on her. i did everything. im pretty sure i have this girl right where i want to. but theres just one question that has been boggiling me. here is the convo we just have

her: nuthin jus chillin n u?
me:just kinda hanging out
her : who u jus hanging wit
Her: no
Me: cynthia
her: who is dat?
me: a lady friend of mine
her: umm
her: den y are u talkin to me?
me : cause she is in the shower and...u imed me?
her: she in da shower at ur house?
me: yep yep yep
her: ummmm..........
her: wat yall do?
me: she is getting out, i gtg, audios senorita


i kinda cut her off to get her to think about what i could be doing, but i never stated to her it was my gf or anything, so

Does it neccessarily mean anything when they show intrest on who ur with and what ur doing with them?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Fitch

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Originally posted by DonCharlie24
ok, im a freshamn, bout to be a sophmore in highschool, and theres this girl that ive known for about 2 years, we've never really been friends, just the occasional "hey" whenever we cross each other in the hallway.

Until Recently, we've never really had a conversation. ive always wanted to persue this girl and i just now started on her. i did everything. im pretty sure i have this girl right where i want to. but theres just one question that has been boggiling me. here is the convo we just have

her: nuthin jus chillin n u?
me:just kinda hanging out
her : who u jus hanging wit
Her: no
Me: cynthia
her: who is dat?
me: a lady friend of mine
her: umm
her: den y are u talkin to me?
me : cause she is in the shower and...u imed me?
her: she in da shower at ur house?
me: yep yep yep
her: ummmm..........
her: wat yall do?
me: she is getting out, i gtg, audios senorita


i kinda cut her off to get her to think about what i could be doing, but i never stated to her it was my gf or anything, so

Does it neccessarily mean anything when they show intrest on who ur with and what ur doing with them?
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She is likes you. No doubt about that.

"her: who is dat?
me: a lady friend of mine
her: umm
her: den y are u talkin to me?" -- This says it all.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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LikRetsam

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No no, the serious problem here is your inability to speak proper english.
 
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Originally posted by LikRetsam
No no, the serious problem here is your inability to speak proper english.
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I think the girl has a bigger problem "dan" him.
 
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Dey boat cant speek proper inglish.

Anyway, the girl seems interested. Btw, did you really had a girl in the shower or you lied?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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First post, be gentle please

70% by eyeball but she could have just been playing.Though what was the situation and her tone?
 
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A7Xx

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Don Charlie? Does "The Revolution" or californiaplaboy have any meaning to you? If not then I mistaked u for someone else.
 
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