Alright let me try to keep it short. A year ago there I was, dating 3 different women simultaneously. Life was great until I met Ana (fake name to protect identity). I was stunned, she seemed to have all the qualities I was looking for in a woman. One problem, she was MARRIED. We started dating, so now I was dating 4 at the time...super Alpha I thought I was. But slowly I started losing interest for the others and put all my efforts towards Ana. We dated for a year until got caught by her husband. He forgave her and she decided to stay with him instead of starting something new with me. I'm now sad, frustrated, depressed and feel like a total AFC. I know what I did was wrong but need some real advice. Thanks
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Help! From Alpha back to AFC?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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1. The number of women you date does not make you alpha. A true alpha doesn't break down into depression without women around. So you weren't really an alpha to begin with, you just arrogantly thought so.
2. What SHE did was wrong, you weren't the one betraying someone you comitted to.
3. Don't go for married or taken women in the future to save yourself the misery.
Absorb this wisdom, decide to get over this and do not repeat your mistake. Feeling sorry for yourself anymore won't help.
2. What SHE did was wrong, you weren't the one betraying someone you comitted to.
3. Don't go for married or taken women in the future to save yourself the misery.
Absorb this wisdom, decide to get over this and do not repeat your mistake. Feeling sorry for yourself anymore won't help.
^^^ READ AND HEED.....If you were a true alpha you wouldn't give a flying fvck if she left or not,you sir are no alpha.
If it helps your ego to call me not alpha thats fine, but there's more context on my post besides discussing my alpha or AFC status. We are here to help and learn not to try destroy another man's self esteem, unless that's part of being "alpha" too lol. Please avoid vague answers and add some intellectual inputs to the post.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
That's true, thanks a lot.
backseatjuan
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Did you lick her cvnt while her husband was sticking her? Cuz that is same as svcking husband's d1ck! 
Are you butthurt? Might was your wife that I ****ed.Did you lick her cvnt while her husband was sticking her? Cuz that is same as svcking husband's d1ck!
lizardking82
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Have you ever thought of pursuing single women? Or even better, have you thought of not getting emotionally involved with married/in a relationship women even if you **** them?
Ana didn't leave her husband because he's a cuck, but you're not much better either since you fell in love with her when all she wanted was a rock hard **** and some fun.
Ana didn't leave her husband because he's a cuck, but you're not much better either since you fell in love with her when all she wanted was a rock hard **** and some fun.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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That's the way it usually happens when you fvck a woman who's officially taken. The mistress I had was engaged to a beta dude, and she cheated on him with me. She eventually married him instead of leaving me, although I didn't expect her to leave him.
If you're going to fvck a woman who's taken, expect nothing, remain emotionally detached, and just enjoy the ride.
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