Alright let me try to keep it short. A year ago there I was, dating 3 different women simultaneously. Life was great until I met Ana (fake name to protect identity). I was stunned, she seemed to have all the qualities I was looking for in a woman. One problem, she was MARRIED. We started dating, so now I was dating 4 at the time...super Alpha I thought I was. But slowly I started losing interest for the others and put all my efforts towards Ana. We dated for a year until got caught by her husband. He forgave her and she decided to stay with him instead of starting something new with me. I'm now sad, frustrated, depressed and feel like a total AFC. I know what I did was wrong but need some real advice. Thanks
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Help! From Alpha back to AFC?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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1. The number of women you date does not make you alpha. A true alpha doesn't break down into depression without women around. So you weren't really an alpha to begin with, you just arrogantly thought so.
2. What SHE did was wrong, you weren't the one betraying someone you comitted to.
3. Don't go for married or taken women in the future to save yourself the misery.
Absorb this wisdom, decide to get over this and do not repeat your mistake. Feeling sorry for yourself anymore won't help.
2. What SHE did was wrong, you weren't the one betraying someone you comitted to.
3. Don't go for married or taken women in the future to save yourself the misery.
Absorb this wisdom, decide to get over this and do not repeat your mistake. Feeling sorry for yourself anymore won't help.
^^^ READ AND HEED.....If you were a true alpha you wouldn't give a flying fvck if she left or not,you sir are no alpha.
If it helps your ego to call me not alpha thats fine, but there's more context on my post besides discussing my alpha or AFC status. We are here to help and learn not to try destroy another man's self esteem, unless that's part of being "alpha" too lol. Please avoid vague answers and add some intellectual inputs to the post.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
That's true, thanks a lot.
backseatjuan
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Did you lick her cvnt while her husband was sticking her? Cuz that is same as svcking husband's d1ck! 
Are you butthurt? Might was your wife that I ****ed.Did you lick her cvnt while her husband was sticking her? Cuz that is same as svcking husband's d1ck!
lizardking82
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Have you ever thought of pursuing single women? Or even better, have you thought of not getting emotionally involved with married/in a relationship women even if you **** them?
Ana didn't leave her husband because he's a cuck, but you're not much better either since you fell in love with her when all she wanted was a rock hard **** and some fun.
Ana didn't leave her husband because he's a cuck, but you're not much better either since you fell in love with her when all she wanted was a rock hard **** and some fun.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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That's the way it usually happens when you fvck a woman who's officially taken. The mistress I had was engaged to a beta dude, and she cheated on him with me. She eventually married him instead of leaving me, although I didn't expect her to leave him.
If you're going to fvck a woman who's taken, expect nothing, remain emotionally detached, and just enjoy the ride.
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