Alright let me try to keep it short. A year ago there I was, dating 3 different women simultaneously. Life was great until I met Ana (fake name to protect identity). I was stunned, she seemed to have all the qualities I was looking for in a woman. One problem, she was MARRIED. We started dating, so now I was dating 4 at the time...super Alpha I thought I was. But slowly I started losing interest for the others and put all my efforts towards Ana. We dated for a year until got caught by her husband. He forgave her and she decided to stay with him instead of starting something new with me. I'm now sad, frustrated, depressed and feel like a total AFC. I know what I did was wrong but need some real advice. Thanks
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Help! From Alpha back to AFC?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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1. The number of women you date does not make you alpha. A true alpha doesn't break down into depression without women around. So you weren't really an alpha to begin with, you just arrogantly thought so.
2. What SHE did was wrong, you weren't the one betraying someone you comitted to.
3. Don't go for married or taken women in the future to save yourself the misery.
Absorb this wisdom, decide to get over this and do not repeat your mistake. Feeling sorry for yourself anymore won't help.
2. What SHE did was wrong, you weren't the one betraying someone you comitted to.
3. Don't go for married or taken women in the future to save yourself the misery.
Absorb this wisdom, decide to get over this and do not repeat your mistake. Feeling sorry for yourself anymore won't help.
^^^ READ AND HEED.....If you were a true alpha you wouldn't give a flying fvck if she left or not,you sir are no alpha.
If it helps your ego to call me not alpha thats fine, but there's more context on my post besides discussing my alpha or AFC status. We are here to help and learn not to try destroy another man's self esteem, unless that's part of being "alpha" too lol. Please avoid vague answers and add some intellectual inputs to the post.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
That's true, thanks a lot.
backseatjuan
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Did you lick her cvnt while her husband was sticking her? Cuz that is same as svcking husband's d1ck! 
Are you butthurt? Might was your wife that I ****ed.Did you lick her cvnt while her husband was sticking her? Cuz that is same as svcking husband's d1ck!
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Have you ever thought of pursuing single women? Or even better, have you thought of not getting emotionally involved with married/in a relationship women even if you **** them?
Ana didn't leave her husband because he's a cuck, but you're not much better either since you fell in love with her when all she wanted was a rock hard **** and some fun.
Ana didn't leave her husband because he's a cuck, but you're not much better either since you fell in love with her when all she wanted was a rock hard **** and some fun.
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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
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That's the way it usually happens when you fvck a woman who's officially taken. The mistress I had was engaged to a beta dude, and she cheated on him with me. She eventually married him instead of leaving me, although I didn't expect her to leave him.
If you're going to fvck a woman who's taken, expect nothing, remain emotionally detached, and just enjoy the ride.
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