"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Jackman

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Shouldn't be too hard just to make an appearance. Make whatever other plans and fit in hitting her party for a few somewhere in there.

I do this with friends in tow once in a while and they don't mind, because they take it as an opportunity to play women at the party. Somtimes a hookup comes out of it, sometimes it leads to nothing. But if it's nothing, at least you've got other things to do on the spot.
 

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Don't pass up a chance to meet new people (the girl's numerous friends, who will be at the party.) Your social circle can't be too wide. Your tons of other prospects are probably good for Mon, Tues, or next weekend.
 

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Phyzzle said:
Don't pass up a chance to meet new people (the girl's numerous friends, who will be at the party.) Your social circle can't be too wide. Your tons of other prospects are probably good for Mon, Tues, or next weekend.


my social circle is quite qide actually :nervous: lol but point taken
 

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If you didnt have to ask for her number, and she gave it to you without asking this should throw up a red flag man. Use your head do you really think a girl would write down her number w/o you asking if she werent interested? If she didnt want you to go or something she woulda waited for you to ask DUHH!

You should also go to get out of your typical social circle, I agree with the above posts.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Othello said:
Red flag? Just cos she gives out her number doesn't mean he should watch out. When he joked about going to the bday she showed him obvious signs of attraction. It seems she's really into him. Girls who love to root hardly ever do this.

Most girls who are sluts are alot more sexual and show that they are keen in different ways, touching, hinting at sex. This girl sounds to me like she is more naive, and has LESS experience with flirting etc.
LOL you totally misunderstud my post. When I said red flag, i met a red flag that she was into him, I thought through reading my post you would understand what I ment. I dunno wtf you're talking about sluts?
 

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ye the face that she made the effort to try n get me to come when i was clearly joking gives me the indication theres some attraction going on


im definatly gona go
 
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