nubian-knight
Don Juan
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Shouldn't be too hard just to make an appearance. Make whatever other plans and fit in hitting her party for a few somewhere in there.
I do this with friends in tow once in a while and they don't mind, because they take it as an opportunity to play women at the party. Somtimes a hookup comes out of it, sometimes it leads to nothing. But if it's nothing, at least you've got other things to do on the spot.
I do this with friends in tow once in a while and they don't mind, because they take it as an opportunity to play women at the party. Somtimes a hookup comes out of it, sometimes it leads to nothing. But if it's nothing, at least you've got other things to do on the spot.
nubian-knight
Don Juan
Phyzzle said:Don't pass up a chance to meet new people (the girl's numerous friends, who will be at the party.) Your social circle can't be too wide. Your tons of other prospects are probably good for Mon, Tues, or next weekend.
my social circle is quite qide actually :nervous: lol but point taken
If you didnt have to ask for her number, and she gave it to you without asking this should throw up a red flag man. Use your head do you really think a girl would write down her number w/o you asking if she werent interested? If she didnt want you to go or something she woulda waited for you to ask DUHH!
You should also go to get out of your typical social circle, I agree with the above posts.
You should also go to get out of your typical social circle, I agree with the above posts.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
LOL you totally misunderstud my post. When I said red flag, i met a red flag that she was into him, I thought through reading my post you would understand what I ment. I dunno wtf you're talking about sluts?Othello said:Red flag? Just cos she gives out her number doesn't mean he should watch out. When he joked about going to the bday she showed him obvious signs of attraction. It seems she's really into him. Girls who love to root hardly ever do this.
Most girls who are sluts are alot more sexual and show that they are keen in different ways, touching, hinting at sex. This girl sounds to me like she is more naive, and has LESS experience with flirting etc.
nubian-knight
Don Juan
ye the face that she made the effort to try n get me to come when i was clearly joking gives me the indication theres some attraction going on
im definatly gona go
im definatly gona go