nubian-knight
Don Juan
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Shouldn't be too hard just to make an appearance. Make whatever other plans and fit in hitting her party for a few somewhere in there.
I do this with friends in tow once in a while and they don't mind, because they take it as an opportunity to play women at the party. Somtimes a hookup comes out of it, sometimes it leads to nothing. But if it's nothing, at least you've got other things to do on the spot.
I do this with friends in tow once in a while and they don't mind, because they take it as an opportunity to play women at the party. Somtimes a hookup comes out of it, sometimes it leads to nothing. But if it's nothing, at least you've got other things to do on the spot.
nubian-knight
Don Juan
Phyzzle said:Don't pass up a chance to meet new people (the girl's numerous friends, who will be at the party.) Your social circle can't be too wide. Your tons of other prospects are probably good for Mon, Tues, or next weekend.
my social circle is quite qide actually :nervous: lol but point taken
If you didnt have to ask for her number, and she gave it to you without asking this should throw up a red flag man. Use your head do you really think a girl would write down her number w/o you asking if she werent interested? If she didnt want you to go or something she woulda waited for you to ask DUHH!
You should also go to get out of your typical social circle, I agree with the above posts.
You should also go to get out of your typical social circle, I agree with the above posts.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
LOL you totally misunderstud my post. When I said red flag, i met a red flag that she was into him, I thought through reading my post you would understand what I ment. I dunno wtf you're talking about sluts?Othello said:Red flag? Just cos she gives out her number doesn't mean he should watch out. When he joked about going to the bday she showed him obvious signs of attraction. It seems she's really into him. Girls who love to root hardly ever do this.
Most girls who are sluts are alot more sexual and show that they are keen in different ways, touching, hinting at sex. This girl sounds to me like she is more naive, and has LESS experience with flirting etc.
nubian-knight
Don Juan
ye the face that she made the effort to try n get me to come when i was clearly joking gives me the indication theres some attraction going on
im definatly gona go
im definatly gona go