nubian-knight
Don Juan
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Shouldn't be too hard just to make an appearance. Make whatever other plans and fit in hitting her party for a few somewhere in there.
I do this with friends in tow once in a while and they don't mind, because they take it as an opportunity to play women at the party. Somtimes a hookup comes out of it, sometimes it leads to nothing. But if it's nothing, at least you've got other things to do on the spot.
I do this with friends in tow once in a while and they don't mind, because they take it as an opportunity to play women at the party. Somtimes a hookup comes out of it, sometimes it leads to nothing. But if it's nothing, at least you've got other things to do on the spot.
nubian-knight
Don Juan
Phyzzle said:Don't pass up a chance to meet new people (the girl's numerous friends, who will be at the party.) Your social circle can't be too wide. Your tons of other prospects are probably good for Mon, Tues, or next weekend.
my social circle is quite qide actually :nervous: lol but point taken
If you didnt have to ask for her number, and she gave it to you without asking this should throw up a red flag man. Use your head do you really think a girl would write down her number w/o you asking if she werent interested? If she didnt want you to go or something she woulda waited for you to ask DUHH!
You should also go to get out of your typical social circle, I agree with the above posts.
You should also go to get out of your typical social circle, I agree with the above posts.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
LOL you totally misunderstud my post. When I said red flag, i met a red flag that she was into him, I thought through reading my post you would understand what I ment. I dunno wtf you're talking about sluts?Othello said:Red flag? Just cos she gives out her number doesn't mean he should watch out. When he joked about going to the bday she showed him obvious signs of attraction. It seems she's really into him. Girls who love to root hardly ever do this.
Most girls who are sluts are alot more sexual and show that they are keen in different ways, touching, hinting at sex. This girl sounds to me like she is more naive, and has LESS experience with flirting etc.
nubian-knight
Don Juan
ye the face that she made the effort to try n get me to come when i was clearly joking gives me the indication theres some attraction going on
im definatly gona go
im definatly gona go