"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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help, attracting older and higher salaried women

newbeginning

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I haven't posted here in a very long while since I've been committed with one person for more than 2 years. For a while now things are not going well and I am starting to look around and realize that there are other great opportunities out there.

Situation: I again started talking to an older female friend who has pretty much everything i want in a mate. In fact, i could mary her today and not regret it. Problem is she is in the medical profession and im in engineering. Needless to say, she makes more than twice as much as I do. Might not be significant to some of you but it is important in my culture to be atleast successful as your mate.

Question: What can I do to attract such a successful and older woman? I think at this age, women are more straight to the point than enjoy playing games.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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MacAvoy

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The exact same way you attract any women. Attraction is attraction. The only advice I've got is to not act like she's more powerful cuz of her money. Treat her just like any other women.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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newbeginning said:
...Problem is she is in the medical profession and im in engineering. Needless to say, she makes more than twice as much as I do. Might not be significant to some of you but it is important in my culture to be atleast successful as your mate....
Decide what'll make you happier; staying true to your culture or your happiness. It shouldn't be a hard decision.
 

Latinoman

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newbeginning said:
I haven't posted here in a very long while since I've been committed with one person for more than 2 years. For a while now things are not going well and I am starting to look around and realize that there are other great opportunities out there.

Situation: I again started talking to an older female friend who has pretty much everything i want in a mate. In fact, i could mary her today and not regret it. Problem is she is in the medical profession and im in engineering. Needless to say, she makes more than twice as much as I do. Might not be significant to some of you but it is important in my culture to be atleast successful as your mate.

Question: What can I do to attract such a successful and older woman? I think at this age, women are more straight to the point than enjoy playing games.
Don't be so negative...if you are a GREAT engineer...then you are smarter than she is. Certaintly, more analytical. You will be surprised how impresed some of the doctors I know about the fact that I am an engineer.

And if you allow society and culture dictate how you going to get involved with a woman...then maybe you should focus on YOUNGER women.
 

thedeparted

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Offer to lick her puzzy. Older women like that. Straight to the point. Then maybe she'll take you out for dinner and dancing... don't forget your heels.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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