"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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help, attracting older and higher salaried women

newbeginning

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I haven't posted here in a very long while since I've been committed with one person for more than 2 years. For a while now things are not going well and I am starting to look around and realize that there are other great opportunities out there.

Situation: I again started talking to an older female friend who has pretty much everything i want in a mate. In fact, i could mary her today and not regret it. Problem is she is in the medical profession and im in engineering. Needless to say, she makes more than twice as much as I do. Might not be significant to some of you but it is important in my culture to be atleast successful as your mate.

Question: What can I do to attract such a successful and older woman? I think at this age, women are more straight to the point than enjoy playing games.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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MacAvoy

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The exact same way you attract any women. Attraction is attraction. The only advice I've got is to not act like she's more powerful cuz of her money. Treat her just like any other women.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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newbeginning said:
...Problem is she is in the medical profession and im in engineering. Needless to say, she makes more than twice as much as I do. Might not be significant to some of you but it is important in my culture to be atleast successful as your mate....
Decide what'll make you happier; staying true to your culture or your happiness. It shouldn't be a hard decision.
 

Latinoman

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newbeginning said:
I haven't posted here in a very long while since I've been committed with one person for more than 2 years. For a while now things are not going well and I am starting to look around and realize that there are other great opportunities out there.

Situation: I again started talking to an older female friend who has pretty much everything i want in a mate. In fact, i could mary her today and not regret it. Problem is she is in the medical profession and im in engineering. Needless to say, she makes more than twice as much as I do. Might not be significant to some of you but it is important in my culture to be atleast successful as your mate.

Question: What can I do to attract such a successful and older woman? I think at this age, women are more straight to the point than enjoy playing games.
Don't be so negative...if you are a GREAT engineer...then you are smarter than she is. Certaintly, more analytical. You will be surprised how impresed some of the doctors I know about the fact that I am an engineer.

And if you allow society and culture dictate how you going to get involved with a woman...then maybe you should focus on YOUNGER women.
 

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Offer to lick her puzzy. Older women like that. Straight to the point. Then maybe she'll take you out for dinner and dancing... don't forget your heels.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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