"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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help, attracting older and higher salaried women

newbeginning

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I haven't posted here in a very long while since I've been committed with one person for more than 2 years. For a while now things are not going well and I am starting to look around and realize that there are other great opportunities out there.

Situation: I again started talking to an older female friend who has pretty much everything i want in a mate. In fact, i could mary her today and not regret it. Problem is she is in the medical profession and im in engineering. Needless to say, she makes more than twice as much as I do. Might not be significant to some of you but it is important in my culture to be atleast successful as your mate.

Question: What can I do to attract such a successful and older woman? I think at this age, women are more straight to the point than enjoy playing games.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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MacAvoy

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The exact same way you attract any women. Attraction is attraction. The only advice I've got is to not act like she's more powerful cuz of her money. Treat her just like any other women.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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newbeginning said:
...Problem is she is in the medical profession and im in engineering. Needless to say, she makes more than twice as much as I do. Might not be significant to some of you but it is important in my culture to be atleast successful as your mate....
Decide what'll make you happier; staying true to your culture or your happiness. It shouldn't be a hard decision.
 

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newbeginning said:
I haven't posted here in a very long while since I've been committed with one person for more than 2 years. For a while now things are not going well and I am starting to look around and realize that there are other great opportunities out there.

Situation: I again started talking to an older female friend who has pretty much everything i want in a mate. In fact, i could mary her today and not regret it. Problem is she is in the medical profession and im in engineering. Needless to say, she makes more than twice as much as I do. Might not be significant to some of you but it is important in my culture to be atleast successful as your mate.

Question: What can I do to attract such a successful and older woman? I think at this age, women are more straight to the point than enjoy playing games.
Don't be so negative...if you are a GREAT engineer...then you are smarter than she is. Certaintly, more analytical. You will be surprised how impresed some of the doctors I know about the fact that I am an engineer.

And if you allow society and culture dictate how you going to get involved with a woman...then maybe you should focus on YOUNGER women.
 

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Offer to lick her puzzy. Older women like that. Straight to the point. Then maybe she'll take you out for dinner and dancing... don't forget your heels.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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